I think my wife cheated with the husband of a family friend. It was a gut feeling at first but more evidence over time and comments leads me to believe it happened. The giddy smirk for example when he's brought up and how they are competitive or something. Knowing this info should I just divorce or continue forward with new knowledge? Part of me feels like the intelligence gathering on my end essentially frees me from any moral duty to be the same guy before this knowledge. Divorce is the same regardless of what happens (I'm the bad guy). Without solid proof I can only assume so much but also know enough to be aggravated. It kind of seems they are the ones hurt the most by this constantly on edge wondering if we know. His wife is stay at home Mom and he bends to her will all the time probably knowing the coals will be calling him if he tries to leave. I'm also late 30s and know I probably won't find another (decent) woman that will want kids and also want me. I larped as a single guy for a short period of time while this was happening and it's bad out there. I think sometimes I should do what the Romans did and have a side girl for actual romance and fun and keep this one for kids. My wife works and pays half for everything. Her parents have decent money and a house and it would be the best option for my bloodline going forward. The kid would be raised in a middle class environment and have a decent shot of being wealthy and successful in the future. I will be leaving everything to my child and invest heavily in them day one.Keep in mind I would probably divorce her if I did actually have evidence but even then I care more about the future of my family. Really feels like a product of the times but I do love her even though she acted like a child.
>>34512532>I larped as a single guy for a short period of time while this was happening and it's bad out there.>I think sometimes I should do what the Romans did and have a side girl for actual romance and fun and keep this one for kids.Suspicion of wife cheating. No evidence. Cheats on wife based solely on this suspicion. Actual male BPDemon. Tell her suspicions, get couples therapy, confess your cheating (it's not "larping", it's an attempt to cheat, if you had found a fuckable hole while "larping" you 100% would have used your suspicion to justify cheating).
>>34512532>more evidence over time and comments leads me to believe it happened.What evidence and comments?
