I was a mentalcel for 23 years until I recently lost my virginity. What’s next? Should I just sleep around to get back for all the lost time and build confidence? I’m a catholic so all this crap is sinful.
I wasn’t a truecel btw, just a mentalcel
>>34513138>I'm a catholicthe only way to resolve the catholic conundrum is through homosexual pederasty. lose faith if you want to live.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA&ra=m
>>34513148Life is pretty empty w/o God
You're 23 dude, you're fine. If you're actually Catholic and not larping you know that God's not going to like you doing that even if you feel like you missed out.
>>34513292Yeah you’re right. So I should just remain chaste while all my peers fornicate and have the time of their lives? How do I deal with the fomo?
>>34513138Men develop strong feelings about girls, they don't really "need" to sleep around like a woman does, buy an assortment of onaholes and you get the same banal sexual satisfaction. I say just look for a wife already, don't pay mind to "before marriage" shit but do committ to someone you like, because for men liking means something.
>>34513138It doesn’t matter if you’ve missed something before; it never will. You need to go to confession immediately and pray fervently for your soul. You have committed a moral sin, and the fact that you’re considering sleeping with just anyone as an acceptable outcome for your sex life is shameful for a Catholic. I know that sexual urges are hard to control, and anyone can fall into masturbation or sex when they’re at their lowest point, but this shouldn’t justify sinful acts when you’re trying to live a life different from that of ordinary people. They won’t hesitate to sleep with just anyone for fun and gratification, unlike you. The best way to gain confidence is to find a girl with whom you likely have things in common, with whom you can imagine a possible long-term relationship, and to be faithful to her. Dedicate your time and love to her, and reserve your sex life for after marriage if you truly intend to act in accordance with Catholic doctrine. Build a lasting and healthy relationship, and don’t let the world’s expectations discourage you. Stand on your own feet and be self-reliant.
>>34513325you cant get laid anyways incel, but nice cope to blame chastity and god lmao
>>34513364I already got laid and had an opportunity to get laid again today but didn’t take it. I’m no longer an incel.
>>34513325Being Christian necessitates that you're going to miss out on many of the things the world says is "good", though having been a hormonal young man myself as well once, I know hearing from others that the path of lust leads nowhere good is basically the equivalent of telling a starving man "just stop being hungry lol". In the end, you need to look inward and decide which path you're going to choose, because one foot in one and one foot in the other will make both sides of yourself disappointed. You can only serve one master. Try and consider why you want a woman directly to help address the fomo. Because everyone else does and you feel weird? You're lonely? You want sex? As Eve was made to help Adam, it's my personal belief that God puts a woman in a man's life once he has all his other affairs in order, to help add to his life rather than being the goal. Ask yourself, if your perfect woman showed up tomorrow in your life, would you be in a position to marry and start a family with her? Being a stable spiritual and emotional leader, having a proper income, a place for your new family to live, etc. At 23 I doubt most men have this, and that's okay, and I understand it's extremely difficult, lonely, and painful, but this path is not easy.
>>34513355Thank you very much for this advice. I’ll seriously take it into consideration. Btw I went to confession few days ago but the temptation to fornicate came back again. I feel like once you open the door for this sin it’s hard to go back to normal. Sex used to be this abstract thing in my imagination but now it’s something tied to my memories and I desire to experience it again. Yeah you’re right. God bless you man.
>>34513382Thank you this is really good advice.
>>34513325>and have the time of their lives?They aren't. None of that shit is fun or fulfilling.>How do I deal with the fomo?By realizing that you aren't missing out on anything. You may as well be envious of people hitting themselves in the balls with hammers. All pleasures are sandwiched in between pains. There's the pain of wanting beforehand, and the pain of regret afterwards. It's better to simply stop valuing pleasure, so that you can have a painless life.
