Let me see if I get this.Hot women are the same as sheltered incels, in the sense they only show interest to top attractiveness people. They are spoiled kids that don't want to do their part of emotional support in the relationship.At the same time attractive and comitted girls settle for a guy they knew in HS/uni when they're 20, so by being a worrisome nerd I rejected the ones life had set up for me.So if I want an attractive girl, I have to find one in real life and pester her until she realizes she has needs beyond hot guys, or become some kind of authority in college/job to snatch a comitted girl who has recently broken up with her highschool boyfriend.That or pretend I'm doing social service and get an ugly girl or rescue a single mother from a string of bad relationships. That's the gist of it right?
>>34513286>That's the gist of itno
>>34513286>That's the gist of itmaybe
what she is cooking?
>>34514492She's warming up some semen in my balls rn
>>34513286Probably overthinking it...Just keep on top of your shit so you don't fall behind where you should be in life for your age, and find a girl by 30.Early 30's is like the last blitz for wife material. Choices will be limited. She'll be doing the same as you.Mid 30's and on gets pretty fucking grim. The women your age who are still single are horrible people and your choice becomes either torture yourself with a woman who's been passed around everyone in her town/city and no other guy could make a relationship work with, or get rich.
>>34513286The stove isn't even on
>>34514747I'm 31 this month...Ah, well. Times like this, I keep wishing being something that could never happen. I keep blaming parents, blaming my dysfunctional country. Something inside wishes for someone else to pat me in the back. I keep seeing point zero as the starting point when some people start from minus and so have I. But somehow I don't want to accept that I'm not cut out for whatever I set my eyes on. I feel that I can't get a girl because I'm lacking, lacking in charm, lacking in cheer, things that nobody teaches. I want to not lack, I would rather strive forever and stay suffering than settle for less. I don't know if someone would call it childish, I couldn't kiss an ugly girl, I would hate myself for it, I would feel pity for her and pity is not love, giving services and protecting people is not love, it's no different from what I do towards my family and that tastes of obligation. Being horny for someone feels like love, being horny at a longing level feels like truer love even.Just comitting to "the next thing" in life sounds terrible. I feel like a broken record trying to chase a youth that passed. I don't even know if any other sort of life is worth it, specially because this situation seems to be rare enough nobody around me seems to live it.
some hot women are like that others aren't. like all people there's all kinds
>>34515068Incirrect. Women are not like most people, they have a much narrower range if expression in most things than do people in general.
>>34515160This is why hypergamy is hellish as a man . THe amoutn of dominant, sweet, smart women or even submissive women who will make a move without neurotically doubting themselves to oblivion or being socially careless is basically zero Having a taste for women smarter, kinder and more fearless than myself is cooked, but I can't/won't close my heart either
>>34513286>Let me see if I get this.Ok, let's see.>Hot women are the same as sheltered incels, in the sense they only show interest to top attractiveness people.In my experience, no. From what I have experienced, conventionally unattractive people tend to be the most judgemental when it comes to looks due to projections of insecurity.>They are spoiled kids that don't want to do their part of emotional support in the relationship.This is 50/50. Depends on how the hot person or ugly person had been raised, has nothing to do with looks, more about temperament.>At the same time attractive and comitted girls settle for a guy they knew in HS/uni when they're 20They will date seriously at this age, whether or not they settle is another matter.>so by being a worrisome nerd I rejected the ones life had set up for me.Probably you did, yeah. I've seen autistic males cry about being bullied or mocked by a girl but reality was she really wanted him and was only bothering him to get his attention, hoping he would ask her out.>So if I want an attractive girl, I have to find one in real life and pester her until she realizes she has needs beyond hot guys, or become some kind of authority in college/job to snatch a comitted girl who has recently broken up with her highschool boyfriend.No. Because you will only show that you are needy, clingy, desperate, and people don't like those with ulterior motives.>That or pretend I'm doing social service and get an ugly girl or rescue a single mother from a string of bad relationships. That's the gist of it right?That's the fastest way to fuck up your life.You don't get it. Here is all you need to not do: keyword 'not'.Don't talk to girls with the expectation of love, sex, lust, whatever. Just talk to them for the simple act of enjoying the conversation, that's all. Just make your main goal "I am bored and want to talk." And talk. Let reality do the growing into love for you
>>34515296bleak
>>34515296>Don't talk to girls with the expectation of love, sex, lust, whatever. Just talk to them for the simple act of enjoying the conversation, that's all. Just make your main goal "I am bored and want to talk."ill die virgin before i let filthy roasties corrupt my pristine spirit
>>34515296Oh brother, sure, I love talking to statues who know nothing of what I'm talking about and don't ask questions back. Sure it's more fun than getting fed more content in the chan or sinking my head into another thousand manga, or telling myself I waste time and should beeline into studying for the next impossible milestone or career credential.Sure, talking out of boredom feels like torture. I hate it. That's why I want a hot woman around, to be inebriated by her looks, but that's the don't do.There's the conundrum, it seems like you have to walk a very thin line to achieve what seems normal to the average person. Don't hate but don't love but don't ignore, not just anybody but don't somebody.I guess what I assumed of there being a way to deliver things, being a way to perform about things I don't really feel, just to bridge a connection are also mistakes. This thing is reducing to a strict issue of luck, fate and windows. This seriously is leaving me lost, just staying hopeful is taking a lot of effort.
