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What do you do if your gf is verbally abusive and tells you you're literally killing her whenever you make a minor mistake like messing up a plan or wearing something the wrong way? Every time my gf yells at me for an hour, she cuddles me afterwards and then tells me that she's sorry and to please love her. I never say a lot to her when she yells at me. I just kind of look at her lol.
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>>34514796
How about you stop making so many mistakes and being an incompetent retard, so that your poor gf doesn't die early from the stress your causing her?
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>>34514796
Let me guess, you are both Chinese and not even the Chinese language forums helped you. I do know if it is going to help you posting in a website full of North Americans and Europeans.

Just wait until you meet the family. She does not give you "face" when she talks to you that way. Its okay for her to be sincere in apologising, it seems that she is preparing you to be her husband. Maybe think about if you would marry such a girl and the bride price her family may demand from you.

I had dealt with some feral "western" girls and I would not want to be in the same room as them.
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>>34514796
You break up with her and find someone who doesn't do this.
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>What do you do if your gf is verbally abusive
when fucking her telling/ordering her to shut her mouth/not yapp so much bullshit/complain so often about small mistakes (different wording). ive heard thats some mild psychological trick to
couple fucking her with something you want from her so shes going to connect these two things. if she keeps yappin there might be a mild subconscious fear of gettin less dick from you but thats manipulative and this is a christian board.
also you could just try to seal her yapp hole with a kiss everytime shes starting again (might make her yapp even more cuz she craving the kisses)

i dont know op, if shes apologizing everytime and still loves you and wants you, depends on how much you love her, if it is a dealbreaker for you.
for me it sounds that shes honest about you but women are women so they yapp+hormones. some never stop, some can be worked with through love. maybe she loves you very much so she wants you to be the best version of yourself?
that would be romantic and erotic. but shes overdoing it.
they always say communication is key. maybe instead of askign us, you are going to be semi honest with her and find the right words to tell her not to worry her cute silly head about such small details so much?
>wearing something the wrong way
maybe shes just testing you to see how you react, seeing you in anger/rage?
maybe when shes at it again, try to manhande her, rushing at her and pushing her against and up the wall and do xyz with her "sorry small ass"? it all depends on what type of human she and you is, what zodiac,
what personal history, preferences and intrapersonal dynamics between you two. you didnt give really much info so im at straws here
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>>34515451
Exactly what this anon said.

OP, we're talking about a woman that yells at you for an hour over wearing clothes the wrong way instead of doing far more respectable than, for example, telling you: "Honey, you got your clothes wrong". Discard her inmediately, you'd cut off friends or family for doing the same thing.

>inb4 OP has a degradation fetish and chooses to stay because this is fantasy fullfilment.
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>>34514796
>What do you do if your gf is verbally abusive
You break up with her. Because she is going to do that with your kids, and mess their head. Do you want them to grow up to be mentally impaired and not reach any milestone a normal human should? Most incels and foids grew up with abusive parents just like that you described.



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