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I’ve been alone for like ten years. I’m in my mid thirties now. I’m decent looking, tall, but unemployed (lost my job to the 2020 shenanigans and never got it back). Every woman I’ve met around my age and pursued romantically has rejected me. They act offended that I would even think that I would be in their league. I gave up. I hooked up with a couple flings but nothing serious and I didn’t like them and they didn’t really like me either. A cute 18 year old girl started following me and messaged me saying she had a massive crush on me. I don’t know what to do with that. I can’t tell anyone about it. Because they’re going to tell me what I already know. I shouldn’t talk to her. So I should continue to be alone and miserable because that’s the right thing to do, right?
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Take my 22yo virgin advice with a grain of salt but if it's something that'd make you happy, why the fuck not? You're both adults. These opportunities come up once in a blue moon.
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>>34515101
You already know it's going to be a short one and it will end. You think about it, because you feel lonely and it would feel good to be love. Just see it like that; the average normie would just fuck her anyway, and it just slightly changed in the last years, because the pedo definition expanded to fucking people under 25 somehow. That said what seems fun at first, can fuck you up later. As she can be the average BPD retard who then switches quickly and points at you as her groomer/abuser. If you feel that desperate, you still can test waters, just don't be too sexual.
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>>34515101
Losingf your job may not have been your fault, but not getting another one in 6 years very definitely IS. And that chronic inaction suggests that not getting a gf is also a result of not really trying.
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>>34515101
Gonna go against the 22 year old anon and say you should not do it (and you should trust me, as I am a 23 year old anon and I am far wiser because of the age difference).

Fuck being morally right or wrong, that girl sees a pretty number that gets her wet when she looks at your age you're or has daddy issues so big you're gonna be her little band-aid for as long as you date, any respectable 18 year old would go for a guy a bit older, 22 or something like that. Mid 30s is fucking pushing it and either she's listening to her fetishes or her daddy issues, she's inmature, she just got out of highschool and has little to nothing in common with you. I guess a quick fuck would be less damaging but I would still be wary of it, a fake allegation and you're fucked.

Go get a fucking job you piece of shit neet, it's your responsability to get one after so long. Of course no woman (or man, for that matter) would want someone who is jobless, not because you're poor, but because you're a liability. As far as they know you are a manchild waiting to find someone who'll pamper him.
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>>34515101
Move her in to your apartment
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>>34515101
Hi anon, im also in my mid 30s but I have kids and a shitty ex for a baby momma. Just go for it. worst case scenario its a short time thing, best case scenario it works out. what is she like?



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