Im 21. Wasnt really invited to any parties before because of my autism and bad looks. Went through a major glow up recently. A few days ago I was invited to a house party by a friend I made in the gym. He told me not to come alone and bring some friends along. I invited someone but they bailed on me at the last moment. The party is in a few hours and I feel anxious as hell. I haven't ever been to an event where I didn't know anyone. I feel like bailing and staying at home. What should I do?
>>34515108>Went through a major glow upThats what you zoomers call losing your butt virginity?
>>34515108Just go dude. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.If it sucks you can leave.
>>34515108Go, be late. Being 1 hour late is actually good if it's a party.
>>34515215Why is that? It starts at 6-7 but my friend(the organizer) will be there at 8
>>34515108Drink some beers to relax. In general going to such parties without knowing anyone is pretty hard even for normalfags. You can check it out, then do an irish goodbye if its too shit and awkward. But it's an option as avoiding it just makes it harder the next time.
At least you get invited to parties.
>>34515110blow your brains out
>>34515260>whyBecause you want to be less drunk than other people there. And showing up late helps that.
>>34515108>21>haven't ever been to an event where I didn't know anyoneno seriously wtfit makes sense some people don't party or do well with girls, that's life. but as a millennial its totally incomprehensible someone who is 21 would have never even been the fish out of water before. did you never start a shitty supermarket job or whatever as a teen? did you never have someone bail on you for a concert so you just had to chat with people at the show? did you never go to overnight camp or academic decathlon or take community college classes for credit your senior year?
>>34515108Look for any groups that has a bunch of people talking and just sit in. They'll assume your friends with someone else in the group.
>>34515108OP here. I ended up going alone and it was fun. Made some new friends
>>34515108>The party is in a few hours and I feel anxious as hellAre you back already?
>>34515828Not OP but, I never went to any big parties out of American pie, just house parties with a dozen of friends. When you talk about parties, are you talking about big parties? I think OP may be in the same situation as I
>>34516692>OP here. I ended up going alone and it was fun. Made some new friendsI'm proud of you, anon.
>>34515136This. OP was told to bring some friends because they're trying to invite as many people as possible. Still better if OP shows and just say whoever he invited couldn't make it. It won't be awkward and it won't look like they don't have friends. Hopefully they went and are having a good time.
>>34517375No, he was told not to come alone AND to bring some friends. Not coming alone was the first instruction.
>>34515828Do Americans really do all these? Makes me wanna kys myself. Bro. How can you forgive your parents if every day of your life your suffering was caused by their negligence or their reluctance to improve?