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Been with her 8 months. Beautiful girl. But she’s hinting at wanting more with other men. She works with 2 black men that she is ALWAYS talking about..

She’s made one or two passing jokes about them trying to kiss her and complimenting her body.

I think she wants me to be her Cuck. I think I’d engage in it. What do people think? How should I approach this. Do I step aside. Do I tell her to do it. Do I tease her back?

How do I become a cuck.
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>>34515393
>she’s hinting at wanting more with other men
>She works with 2 black men
>She’s made one or two passing jokes about them trying to kiss her and complimenting her body.
>She's made one or two passing jokes
>jokes
Break up with her, she is already taking these BBC.

>I think I’d engage in it. What do people think?
I think you're stupid and you have zero self respect, or this is a bait thread and you should kys.
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>>34515393
You could maybe kill yourself instead. Otherwise fuck off to reddit and never come back, cuckoldry is their speciality.
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>>34515393
>How do I become a cuck.
Make sure both of you are very drunk so you can back-pedal if you need to, then ask her if she's actually serious about the guys from work. Say "Because honestly, if it's really what you want, I might actually be okay with that...?". See what her reaction is.

But think really hard about whether it's what you want. You can probably back down from the drunken conversation, but from that point on, anything that happens is something neither of you can take back.

Also, ask yourself what your core motivation is here. Are you actively turned on by the idea of her fucking someone else, or do you merely think that you might not mind if it makes her happy? Are you hoping for the freedom to fuck around yourself? These are all very different dynamics.

Finally, if you do decide to go ahead with it, talk about it a *lot* first, and decide *exactly* what both of you are and are not okay with. Boundaries are really important in that context.
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For me, she would need to take pictures and record some of it. Otherwise, would probably be fun. Just dont take it so seriously or plan to be with her forever.
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>>34515393
like every other fetish, you need to engage out of your own will, it doesn't mean you need to be 100% into it from the begining, people try stuff all the time. There's an American Dad episode, the gay alien gets the dad into BDSM and he wants to do everything at once. It's kinda like that, it's not about what is going on, but do YOU want to do it?
>What do people think?
I've dated a woman that got excited with the idea of me fucking another woman, but I found no joy in it, I enjoy cuddling after sex and I don't want to do it with a stranger, or even a friend, that's the point of having a gf. I wonder if it's a low selfesteem thing where you need to delegate the job of pleasuring a woman to someone else, but I'm the kind of person that tries to do everything by myself, I'd only go to a mechanic if my car exploded.
>How should I approach this
Repressing a fetish that you're into is always an option, I guess. Look, I think it's weird, but if you're into it, you got someone willing to engage and have fun with, and there will be no serious consequences, I'd say go for it? I mean, let's say you two break up and you actually wanted it, what now? Your next girlfriend might not be into it, yk?
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>>34515499
Thank you for the advice. It’s a mix of things. I want to try it because it will 1) make her happy and 2) I may find it incredibly hot. She’s my queen.

I like the idea of going through with it drunk.
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>>34515831
Do you think she’s already fucked them? Strong chance bro.
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>>34515838
Maybe. I trust her so probably not yet
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all the summerfags itt replying walls of texts to this obvious troll lmao



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