I have been wearing these 3-inch shoe lifts, and she has never seen me without them. I am addicted to these and wear them all the time, just to feel more confident. I am scared for her to see my real height. How would I even deal with this if we start dating?
>>34516109>I am scared for her to see my real heightHow tall are you? This will definitely be a problem in the future. She will caught you, and if you don't wear them someday at work, it will be weird as fuck, nobody shrinks 3 inches out of nowhere, that's like, a lot.
>>34516114>She will caught you>She will catch you>You'll get caughtSorry, I had deleted and rewritten and mixed them up.
>>34516114I am barely 5'8, maybe 5'7 and 3/4. She's kind of short though at 5'2 or so. So like it's not like she's anywhere near my height without these but idk if it will be discernible from her perspective. I am not wearing these for girls btw. I just feel more confident at work
>>34516131I measured the heels, and it looks like it's 3 inches with no pressure but maybe 2 inches after you apply your full body weight to them. Still deceptive but maybe not as much
>>34516109This is why you don't wear lifts
>>34516131having such a big complex about being short when you're dead average is crazy.
>>34519194It really makes a difference though. Just try them
>>34519240already 6'5" and prone to bump my head on things, so no, additional height is a curse
Try gradually decreasing the lifts so she doesnt notice
>>34519311I'm 6'4I'm better than youI wish i was shorter
>>34516109Presumably the only time she'll see you without your shoes is when you're lying down
>>34519240I'm 5'9" or 5ยด10". I dunno. I was always shy as a kid, and never dated. I have never thought about my height, to the point I don't even know what it is exactly. I was measured in army 20 years ago but I forgot it. Height is insanely irrelevant. Combat happens with tools and preparation. Combat with women would be comically one-sided, a 5-foot man without tools can easily kill an olympic-level athlete 6-foot woman.You have some minor insanity related to your height. Just accept it, it's the first step to altering or fixing it.
>>34519473I'm better than you.
>>34521485Shorter is better at our league
put them in your socks? shouldn't have stacked so many though wouldn't that looks really obvious even in shoes? anyway if she says anything say youve got a fucked up fungal nail and youre treating it and keep socks on
she'll figure it out and just wait for then
>>34516131>I am barely 5'8, maybe 5'7 and 3/4.Oh c'mon, you shouldn't even be using those, for fucks sake, just normal shoes would do.>>34516137>maybe 2 inches after you apply your full body weight to themAlright, 2 inches isn't as big as 3 inches, but I still think she will notice, just keep using them, don't take them out, and don't tell her.
>>34521876>put them in your socks?Definitely don't follow this advice, OP, you'll look ridiculous and if you take them off in front of her it will be akward.
>>34522002wtf else is he to do he already fucked up by putting in too many, he could have gotten away with 1 inch, he cant just step out of shoes and be 3 shorter at this point he has to commit
>>34522033I could barely understand what you said... Putting these things inside the socks is meaningless, and he will just look ridiculous and deformed.
>>34516109I mean you'll need to take them out eventually if you do end up getting together with her or anyone else. You can't just wear the shoes 24/7, and even if you did, it's stressful to have to lie all the time.It's exactly like wearing a wig. If you do wear one, the other person will eventually find out.Like others have said, you aren't even that short to begin with, it's a pretty average height.
>>34522039putting 3 in the shoe looks ridiculous, his foot will be elevated within the shoe so it will already look weird at 3 but if he downsizes to 1 inch in a sock with thicker socks then it might not look as bad, he can pretend he has a high instep.
Hows your back op must be completely destroyed
This is ridiculous op tall female here projecting myself on how I gave my heart to elf size guy just to step on it ....so just be yourself and that crap or you plan hiding it fovever what if is she the one the girl who is going to marry you and have children together. Or are you going to let it slide just because you are scared she finds out you wear heels no way be a fucking man or ........ just try to reduce the size little by little maybe she doesn't notice
>>34516109she isn't into you she's just playing workplace politic games to get a raise or a promotion or get you fired
>>34519240I'm a bit taller than you and did to see whether the internet memes have some truth to them. Result: My feet hurt after a day of wearing them. Thats it. You just cooked your brain with tiktok posts until it rotted into mush. So now you can only move with confidence and feel good about yourself if you wear those things. And thats going to be tons more unattractive than being of average height. Which isn't unattractive, just neutral.
