Unsure maybe I am in the wrong. Am I justified for breaking up with my partner for>Being mad and annoyed at me when I am sad when I was there when they were sad>Them hanging up with me when I brought it up and was crying silently>Them not apologising for days about it and still not to this day>Them telling me to get over it by myself when I always was there for them when they are sad or angry(they get angry easily at stuff like going to the store or minor disagreements about topics that have nothing to do with the relationship)
Yes, you're justified, they'll drain you. There are people out there who will be happy to be by your side when you need it
>Ugh what am I his mom??? Ick!No you're not in the wrong, a partner that won't support you on your worst days is pointless and the relationship has no future future
>>34516157This op is female
>>34516139Funny cause I'm kinda going through the same thing but honestly it's just your brain trying to find familiar comfort. Remind yourself why they were bad to you. Instead of all the good times, think about the times you needed them and they weren't there or how they did something that they knew was a violation to you or the relationship. As much as I miss my ex, I can't allow myself to date her unless both of us agree to change on massive levels and I feel like she wouldn't seriously commit so I have to force myself to accept that it's just another lost relationship, it's not worth being 10% happy and 90% miserable/fed up
>>34516139> Am I justified for breaking up with my partner Yes. Even if your reasons are pants-on-head retarded or just made up, it is your absolute right to leave if you're not married. That's the entire point. Your reasons don't have to make sense, you don't need to justify it to anyone but yourself. If you don't want to be in the relationship, you don't have to be, and it's better for everyone that you break it off before it becomes an actual commitment.And your description is far from being a retarded reason. Sounds like an insufferable shitheel who should have been dumped a while ago.
>>34516139Dump that emotionally abusive (selfish) vampire.
>>34516959>if you're not marriedI'd leave anyway. Emotionally abusive people don't deserve a loving partner. Ever. They deserve a kick in the punani.
>>34517053I didn't say that you're never justified in leaving a marriage. I just said that you don't even need a justification if you're not married.
