You're telling me that I should just put on my big boy boots, and work 40 hour weeks as an old man (25) in the same exact way as a normie who deflowered his 15yo gf, went to parties, made memories that will keep him going until he dies?Why?The best part of your life is 0 - 25, after that it's just coping until you die. Even the "successful" normies I know who make 6 figures live pretty mundane boring lives. Why should I work my ass off just to get to where they are and be only slightly less miserable than I am when I can do absolutely nothing and only be a little more miserable?There's no going back.It's not even socially acceptable for me to date 20yos now and I am no longer in a space with them daily like I was in university. Women my age are ran through whores who gave their best years to other men. I'll have to work harder in every possible metric, such as money, car, sex skills, general attitude just to get a very much diminished version of what 15 year olds get for simply existing.
>>34516857Shit repost, focusing on teen pussy for 7 years after being an adult is pathetic and there's more to life than immature, spastic relationships. sage this shit
>>34516866>there's more to life than immature, spastic relationships.like what? Go look at 25+ normies. They're all pretty damn miserable just talking about what they did in college and high school. I didn't even get to experience what they did then so again, what is there to look forward to now that's better than that?
>>34516857to be an actual functional member of society instead of an old fuck reminiscing about his teenage years cause he remained stagnant instead of actually improvingI have not been more miserable than my teens and early twenties save for the last year or so, I have 0 chance to have a job or had one back in the day due to location and lack of time due to studies. Once I do have the chance of having a job (post 25 years old atp) I have financial freedom to at least buy me pizza on the weekends. You're pathetic if you only go downhill starting 25, you could be climbing up and improving your life but remain stuck in le gud olde days
>>34516873I am a 26 year old, very normie (Lovingly married, good bluecollar job, cute dog, small house we rent) and can confidently tell you that "teen love" and highschool were nothing compared to being financially stable and in a loving, healthy, mature relationship. We live a quiet life but go do stupid fun things to pass the time, pursue our hobbies/interests and are getting ready to have our first kid. Dealing with bratty hoes who's idea of "true love" was making them cum before 4th period and getting into silent treatment/screaming match arguments was fucking awful. My wife and I still party pretty regularly and they're more fun as adults than they were as teens because we can afford more than bottom shelf liquor, and I STILL make memories with my highschool buddies because we kept touch and forged a brotherhood deeper than (though still including) wingmanning one another, shotgunning beers and playing videogames until 4am. Life in your 20s can be so, so much more fun than your teens; I'd never go back even if I could.
>>34516988You do know your wife was the "bratty hoe" in high school, right? She gave her bratty prime teen years and virginity to other men. What do you do in your "mature" relationship now? talk about your mortgage? Child names? You're going to put a child into a woman who was someone else's nightclub one night stand and he didn't even remember her name the next morning, and he got her prime, unlike the man who devoted his life to her.
>>34516988>>34516902>Le ImpRoOvE!Well the other fucking side is miserable as well, you fucks are lucky to get the best of both worlds. Me and My brother were stuck studying medicine, My dumbass brother DID get some gf in college but he never brought her home and hid her from everyone, got a mental uggo when my dad died and he still cries because she literally was kind to him during the grief, even though they fought every other day. He can't find anybody and is almost getting full of incel narrative at 36, he's well off, on track to earn 5 figures but he still pretends he's penniless.I am 30. I decided I shouldn't go down that neurotic path after graduating. Tried to "find myself", and been NEETing and training useless skills like drawing, programming, music, currently learning japanese. I feel Like I have to bite the bullet and just go fucking medicine again which I absolutely fucking hate because I feel like a stagnant failure. I felt like a failure working as a resident, I feel like a failure getting odd skills, I will feel like a failure earning 5 fucking figures once I'm 40. Today coming out of japanese class at uni I saw some teenagers, literally 17-18. A blonde chick in crop top and short shorts with a huge ass, surrounding with arms and throwing herself at the lips of some aloof retard who was saddle neck checking his phone 1 second after she walked away. Luckiest fucking guy in the world and he's half fucking asleep. Meanwhile I waited 4 fucking years for a girl to end her relationship, became suicidal and still yearned her strongly after graduating, Just because Nobody ever told me women expected you to make a fucking move when you're madly in love with them.I Spit and curse at my fate. I'm so fucking damaged from overwork I am not satisfied with a warm pussy and a friendly smile. I want to feel madly in love again and fuck fuck fuck whoever I decide.cont.
>>34517077kek btw i was the half asleep guy nice to meet yall
>>34517077cont.And still I have full fucking breaks on because my mind can't keep from summoning the bullshit thoughts: "Ooh, What if you hurt her feelings?" " what if you offend her sensibilities?" "what if some nobody laughs at you" AND FUCK if it doesn't happen, It does and feels like shit still, gonna write about it soon. "What if someone says you're a pedo", "what if someone says you're a rapist", "What if you get herpes from a kiss or a spank and you can never kiss your mother again". "What if you being autistic is not enough for her, you will Lose-ose-ose her" "What do I do right next?" "What if you're feeling like shit and you get roped again into a string of pessimism?" "What if she drinks, everyone drinks, but your mother and your dead father were afraid of drinking and you find it disgusting, what if your dead father would disapprove?"All this fucking shit or variations roam my mind every time I see a cute girl. What if she has a boyfriend, gonna offend the boyfriend, gonna offend the father. Fuck it.And again, Yes there's always some immature retard going "OOOHJ ANON, YOU'RE HITTING ON THAT GIRLL, OOH ANON THE CASANOVA, ANON AND FOID SITTING ON A TREE". Wanna punch that fuck with all my sadness until he becomed another jaded emotionless shit for demeaning the most fucking difficult thing in my fucking life.I swear. It's fucking hell. If you fucks ever have children, I hope you monitor whether they're in a relationship by 12, and if they haven't by 20 it's a fucking Developmental delay you fucks. Don't take it for granted like my retarded parents did. I can never forgive them. I can't forgive people being fucking retards. I have pulled my own weight trying not to be a retard forever. Nobody deserves leniency for being retarded.
>>3451685736 y/o unc hereThe best love is the love that doesn't last for 3 weeks in highschool between two hormonal children that won't even think twice about the other after that time comes along. It's almost always the guy who will be nostalgic about that a decade or two later. Believe me, very few HS relationships are long lasting. The ones that do are rare. You didn't miss anything. You're 25. Stfu, work on your shit and put yourself out there for a relationship with a grown women
>>34516857>WhyPresumably you want to have somewhere to live, and food.
>>34516857food, independent living, travel, the ability to replace things that wear down... it's not really even a question
>>34517058Sorry to burst your bubble, I was my wifes first sexual partner. She had boyfriends, but never went all the way with anyone before me.>What do you do in your "mature" relationship now? talk about your mortgage? Child names? We share our dreams and work towards our aspirations together, baby names are actually a big conversation piece at the moment but we talk about our hobbies, keep up with our friends and try for one or two little dates a week to keep a things fresh, a couple big dates a month. We can talk about anything and make it fun honestly, perk of marrying your favorite person in the world is that you actually like spending time with them even if it's mundane.>>34517113>If you fucks ever have children, I hope you monitor whether they're in a relationship by 12, and if they haven't by 20 it's a fucking Developmental delay you fucks.Behind your pain I can tell you're kind, not wishing it on another. I strongly suggest talking to a therapist to work through your confidence issues because if a man can go through hardships like that and still wish better for others he must be of good character, the world needs more of that and I wish you well.
>>34517269>but never went all the way with anyone before me.yeah, i'm sure she said that to the 10 other guys before you also.How old was she when you started dating?
>>34517315She was 20, drop dead gorgeous and brilliant; if I didn't pop her cherry myself I wouldn't believe it either. I didn't care either way as I wasn't a virgin when we met and it would be hypocritical of me to ask that of her, just a happy coincidence.
>>34516988So to you, the "more to life" is being a waggie, having animal slaves, living in a goypod, being alcoholic and rotting your brain with video games?
>>34517315I think I found your problem OP. Other than shooting down the people trying to help you, you're too focused on some narrative you're trying to build up in your head about yourself and about what you think is important. You lack the maturity to see things long term and are still mentally stuck in your teen years. It explains your view on life from 25 onwards. I imagine there was some oneitis that you never got over, or some other incident that made you think you went past the point of no return, but that's a lie. I imagine a lot of the anons here with your worldview are still stuck in that state, either physically by living with their parents and acting like they're still a teen, or mentally by never having moved on from that phase because of some self acceptance you refused. You still have your life ahead of you. You can still enjoy the things to come. This fantasy in your ahead is just that: a fantasy. Teen love sounds fun on paper but it's really just an extension of human relationships of the time. I'd trade all that to find a meaningful connection with someone today, because that's when and where I'm living in. At some point OP you're gonna have to admit to yourself caring about missing out on teen love is just cringe. Move on
>>34516857Travel to a third world in a safe group. See how shit life is, how noisy uncultured, heathen.Come back and thank God for not being born in a third world. Go back to enjoying life.
>>34517964NtaI've had dreams of my oneitis. The ones who visibly hated me, the ones who were platonic, the ones who gave a hint. There was this one girl wearing a mask, amongst other girls, but seeing her I knew that she was my woman and she ran to me.I thought there must be something Jungian abiut it. All if it is high-school themed.
>>34517113Vent, ventity venty vent.You sound hopeless and bitter towards every aspect of your life, and I'm not saying that as mockery, you geniuenly need psichiatric help if you feel useless and like a failure all the time, are so bitter, and your thoughts keep telling you about bad possible outcomes or horrible things you could become. That last one is not le funky autismo, that's OCD.>>34517269>I can tell you're kind.Who? The guy who wants to "punch that fuck with all my sadness until he becomed another jaded emotionless shit for demeaning the most fucking difficult thing in my fucking life." Yeah, very kind of him, especially over a fucking innocent joke all your friends would make. Don't reinforce his delusions of martyrdom by praising him.
>>34518091Just amazed how it doesn't register to you that people can get shit on their plate and be offended by mockery. How does that happen? Did you use to get in trouble in school?
You sound like a pain in the ass. Idk, just kys I guess if you don't want to improve.
>>34516857>Tell me why I should workYou might someday want to eat.
>The best part of your life is 0 - 25No it's not. Except if you are a complete and total loser.
Sage bomb
>>34517815yeah, yeah, you're American too right? lmao
>>34518140Offended? By an idiot pulling a kindergarden level joke? A joke that would create banter if made by a friend?Please, you're oversensitive if your first reaction is wanting to bash someone's skull in based on that alone, which that anon clearly is. Need I remind you, he's more than likely mentally troubled if all he can think of is how useless he is and how he's at risk of becoming a pedofile? How he thinks so negatively? That's not normal, and I don't say that to offend or demean him, he clearly needs professional help, possibly even medication, and that's nothing to be ashamed of. What I WILL say he is an idiot for is feeling so enraged by a random fuck teasing him over talking to a girl because it reminds him of his lack of success with women. That is fucking dumb, and getting his panties in a twist over that is something HE allowed to happen.
>>34517841Nah, my "more to life" is companionship, fulfilling experiences and accomplishments. >>34518339No, but why would it matter?>>34518091>Don't reinforce his delusions of martyrdom by praising him.I wasn't praising his violent fantasies, I was praising the fact that despite his emotional turmoil he still wanted to share advice that he believes would ease anothers suffering to prevent more people from being in his own shoes; admirable traits deserve positive reinforcement and helping him focus on the good he's capable of might inspire positive change.
>>34518531>I was praising the fact that despite his emotional turmoil he still wanted to share advice that he believes would ease anothers suffering.You know what, I see what you mean anon. You got me there. Still think the violent fantasy is too much and something he should correct tho.
>>34518356>People asking for help... are not Normal?>Better shit on them for being troubled, he caused getting gaslit as a teenager, people are allowed to push his buttons for fun but he's not allowed to get triggered, but he did get triggered so he deserves to get killed, leave the wreck to the "professional" who numbs people and tells them to cope, not because that would get him back on track but because he deserves it, look how violent he is he needs to be removed from society.You started replying in bad faith since the moment you started mocking it as "vent". Is there anything wrong venting anyway, when it's the first thing the therapist gets people to do? Next thing you do is to keep defending your insult, how do you figure any of that helps? God help us if you ever needed of somebody else but everyone had your attitude to throw inconvenient people under the bus.
>>34518775JFC, man. Who said anything about deserving to get killed or asking for help not being normal? What I mentioned not being normal is constant ruminating thoughts about potentially being a horrible person or a harm to society out of nowhere with no prior evidence of such thing or feeling worthless. And I say that as someone who struggled through the exact same in the past, that'd be outside anyone's control and I would not shame anyone for it. Now, is it normal, as in is it meant to happen? No, the same way suicidal thoughts are not normal, is a symptom of a problem.You are allowed to have your sensibilities but a little teasing joke sending you down a spiral of hatred because it reminds you of a shortcoming to the point you'd fucking punch someone is being overtly fucking sensitive, hyperbole or not, fantasy or not, it's an overreaction to what an average person considers an innocent joke made for banter, it's gonna happen if two people of the opposite sex are seen together by their friends.A therapist tells you to vent so they can analyze you, it's not out of fucking empathy, it's how they work, they grab everything you say and dissect it, and even then they intervene and stop you so you elaborate about X or Y, it's fundamentally different from screaming your sorrows at the internet.That vent helped in nothing, it's not fucking advice, it did not elaborate, it was out of nowhere and tried to refute shit I said, and it was nonsense
>>34517077Then just kys you miserable faggot
