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So I have been in this class since january and I haven't really gotten to learn anyone in my class so far but I want to. Is it too late now that months have gone by? You can't really go "hey I'm anon, who are you?" When you've "known" each other for months. How do I start talking to these people now?
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>>34517127
Nobody knows each other until they hang out. Almost nobody remembers the name of people they don't talk about.

If this is about women, then yes, they already form the image of spineless after seeing you one month.
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>>34517127
>I haven't really gotten to learn anyone in my class so far
haven't gotten to learn anyone? you mean teach anyone?
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>>34517238
>If this is about women, then yes, they already form the image of spineless after seeing you one month
Even if I only want to he friends?
>>34517245
No. I'm not the teacher. I want to get to know them
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>>34517127
I've met my current uni friends after talking to one of the members randomly by mere happenstance and she introducing me to 'em. There is also anothe girl who just thought I looked friendly and introduced herself to me, this was around the middle of the year a couple of years ago after losing a previous group of friends. Definetly possible. If I could make any suggestion, make it look like an accident or like you'rr asking for something/need something if you're too shy. "Oh hey, sorry, do you have some notes from this and that class? I need to check something real quick." And try to start conversation.
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>>34517127
>How do I start talking to these people now?
if you don't attempt to make friends, you will just be another anonymous person in the course and will be forgotten. That, or people will just assume you are stuck up and walled-off and avoid you.
>You can't really go "hey I'm anon, who are you?"
thats literally all you have to do. Just strike a quick conversation "hey, what do you think of this chapter so far? It's pretty interesting right?" or, "I don't really know anyone here, were you always attending this semester?". This time in your life is the best time to network, so dont waste it.
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>>34517127
"Hi. I know it's silly, but we've been in class for weeks and never met. I'm Anon. I wanted to ask you if you got the last assignment [or whatever]...."



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