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27M virgin (kissed and held hands tho, and have fingered a girl against my will once), hit it off with someone (25F) tonight and they invited me out w/ them to club in my area. Naturally accepted as she's goth (tho a bit chubby) and she keeps saying how into me she is. I show interest, we hold hands and I am doing all the shit that she responds to (finger along jaw, cupping face, arm around her etc.etc.)

Dumb bitch makes out with a non-binary troon and some shaggy haired retard right in front of me after I'd bought her drinks and chatted/flirted with her all night and she asks if I really thought I stood a chance before making out with shaggy haired retard again.

Obviously yes you dumb bitch that's why I came out with you

Wtf do I do anons? Dating apps are absolutely fucked and meet cutes don't happen in my country. And before anyone hits me with the obvious shit, I:

Work out 3 times a week at gym and am in good shape
Well paying respected job
Have several social hobbies
Go out to singles mixers
Am told by female friend I'm attractive
Play an instrument
Have an active social life

But never been in a relationship (lmao). Wtf is wrong with dating today? And how tf do I adapt?
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>>34517133
Sounds like a bratty chick that needed to be corrected.

Just move on man. You're closer to figuring it out than me who has never dated.
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>>34517133
U must rape and murder her now
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>>34517133
>Clearly mentions it's a female
>Uses they instead of she
>Is this nigga retarded
Also move on. Just like economic depressions are their own era, we're living in a relationship depression. You just need to live through it and soon you'll have a relationship boom era.
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>>34517133
the majority of women nowadays are too retarded to date. unironically. this is my conclusion after being an incel that became attractive and have rejected many. the majority of women are limp wristed. they will never initiate because they are all passive (and i dont mean that they are conditioned to, they are all genuinely insecure).

if you want them all to like you, just talk to them like you already have a girlfriend. it gets rid of the pressure that you cant talk to them because you are nervous (why get nervous if you already have a gf, duh). this gets rid of the barrier that stops women from talking to you. they are all nervous wrecks and once they think its okay to talk to you they will start giving you hints (which is all they can do really). yes i am very misogynistic
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>>34518127
>just talk to them like you already have a girlfriend
Talk to them like they're the girlfriend. And have no doubt in your mind about it.
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>>34518127
I fucking hate the "women are nervous" shit because everyone is nervous approaching someone, everyone somewhere has a fear of rejection even if they can hide it better, but somehow we live in a world where men are expected to lump it and meanwhile retarded women are lauded for being retards

Trannies and fags are the exact same too, it's fucking disgusting

Solid advice tho
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Dating apps are trash, meet women outside.
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>Work out 3 times a week at gym and am in good shape yadayada...

If this is all true, just let it roll off your back and laugh about it bro, so what you didn't end up with the dime a dozen goth land leviathan, you'll find someone better soon bro
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>>34519112
>truke



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