34/m been talking with 18/f for a few daysthinking of having her come live with me in my apt, she wants to run awayI haven't been in a long term relationship in like 10 yearsshe's cute but seems a bit mental (in a fun way)I'm either making the best decision or biggest mistake of my lifeshe's also talking about marriage and seems baby crazyI have about $1000 in take home every monthI do mentally connect with her (which may sound weird considering age gap) but uh... am I being irresponsible?legit post btw
>>34517477Unironically kill yourselfIf you don't see how this is predatory you're a retard or autistic I hope she is just setting you up to be robbed and raped and killed.
>>34517526that's not helpful or constructive but I appreciate your input!
>>34517477Go for it anon.There is nothing sweeter on this world than young, legal pussy.I'm 44 and have a 22 year old sugarbaby that I creampie on the reg. Costs me about 800 a month but her pussy is so fucking tight. Banged some 41 year old chick a couple months ago and the difference in pussy elasticity, scent and appearance is insane.Ignore the haters. She is an adult and is responsible for her own decisions.
>>34517526Go fuck yourself.If you don't want incels predating 18yo girls why don't you whore your wife to them? You think you can make the world fairer by kicking people who are already down? Unironically kill yourself.
>>34517526How is that predatory? In this scenario both are adults, so how?>>34517477You need to check whether you're not being honey trapped. If she comes from a shit household she might be love bombing you so she can get a shelter and maybe put a baby in her(if it is yours, unless she's already pregnant and wants sex immediately to obfuscate any doubts). What do you know of her background, what of her friends, what of her family?Ask of these are valid possibilities that lonely men do not consider for the she of not being lonely. Be wise anon, there's ton of forums where you'll hear men like you getting scammed.
basically I either finally hit the jackpot and God is giving me my chance or I'll be murdered in my sleep or eating hair in meals etc. I feel like I gotta man up and take this chance or I'll be foreveraloneGirls moving in with guys is normal right, that's shit that just happens even if it's sudden sometimes. I've been in two "long term" 2-3 year relationships, but never lived with a girl before. At least not one I was intimate with.>>34517643thanks>She is an adult and is responsible for her own decisions.I agree. >>34517684not like the idea of it being a scam hasn't crossed my mine, but she has sent multiple pics with timestamps (including written with sharpie on her body) so I'm like 99% sure it's not a scam. I think it is just the extremely shit household (possibly victim of abuse) and psycho parents thing. She dodges a lot of questions I ask about her home/family/situation. Good tip about being preggo already though. She says she's a virgin but maybe having her take a test would be wise still.
>>34517684>Both are adults18 yr old girls aren't adults. 21 is And frontal lobe isn't done developing until 25Women are basically retarded even at 22-23 they want to drop out of college and have kids
>>34517735Yeah. Hopefully your relationship is fruitful, joyfully you clarify the boundaries and expectations of the relationship. Hopefully she loves you genuinely and does her best to make your household complete. You relay to her and she relays to you your love for each other.Hopefully she isn't looking for a sugar daddy that she's latching onto just temporarily get out of her home and then move on a few years later with divorce and alimony.
>>34517740Hahahaaaa hahahaaaHahaaaaa hahaha
>>34517740Pic related
>>34517477Based. Go for it anon. Don't listen to these dried up old sluts. >>34517526>>34517659>>34517740There's nothing "predatory" about two consenting perfectly legal adults having a go. They're just mad they wasted their reproductive years playing musical cocks and trying to take it out on you instead of taking personal responsibility for their poor life choices.
>>34517821kek, I appreciate you taking the time to make thatthese are her doodles, should I be concerned?
>>34517477You are being very reckless. But I suppose you are both preying on each other so you deserve each other. You think you're going to have a non-trainwreck relationship with a "mental" 18 yr old running away from home and talking about marriage and babies after only talking to you for a few days?> I do mentally connect with herEveryone should learn the red flags for borderline personality disorder in high school, it should be part of the standard curriculum.She's just telling you what she thinks you want to hear, because she has no stable sense of identity. It's called mirroring, or love-bombing.At least don't let her live with you. If you do, don't come crying when she goes full BPDemon and attacks you, then the police come and charge YOU with domestic violence and kick you out of your own home and let her squat in it while she destroys your property.Most responders are going on about age gaps or scams, but the problem is she's going to be most stereotypical unstable immature female who will eventually cheat on you and rape your life.
>>34517845Nope looks good to me bro.>>34517847>The predatory angle didn't work so let's try concern trollingPathetic.
>>34517847I mean that's obviously a concern which is why I'm posting here for feedback. She has weird marks on her arms and legs that look like burn marks or possibly some type of lash/scar that she has so far refused to explain. I had to look up love bombing and yeah it does appear like she may be doing that a bit, but she's also super self deprecating calling herself worthless and basically not worthy of any happiness. So that kind of conflicts doesn't it? She is undoubtedly desperate to escape and doesn't have many options.>>34517884hmmm.. how about these ones?
>>34517888Nah it's fine. It's good she has a hobby. I wouldn't worry about the abuse stuff either. She's stuck with her family this far so I don't think she'll leave. Build her up and she'll be grateful forever. You might have to choke her a little bit or something to get her off but that's not a big deal.
>>34517477Meet her a couple times not where you live. You don't want her knowing where you are living in the beginning.
>>34517952Terrible advice. You need to get her acclimated to her new home as soon as possible. It's like adopting a dog. Too many places too soon is just going to confuse and frighten her.
>>34517477check ID
>>34518041No, if he feels that she's completely insane immediately, it's safer for him this way.
>>34517477>am I being irresponsible?No. Impregnate her RIGHT NOW!>>34517526Go fuck yourself, you're either an incel or a roastie. Either way: the myth of consentLOLOLOLOL
>>34517740>18 yr old girls aren't adults. 21 isYou're just jealous, in some countries even a 14 to 16 year olds are legal, just cry about it, lol
>>34517477>>34517847>>34517888> she's also super self deprecating calling herself worthless and basically not worthy of any happiness.Gee whiz, I stand corrected, if someone calls themself worthless and and not worthy of any happiness, they are definitely a better romantic partner who will bring you happiness! \s\s\sThat is the most blinking red flag flown by nightmare humans. Do you think nightmare people have horns growing out of their heads and monologue like cartoon supervillains? They don't even know what they are. Being self-deprecating one moment and mindblowingly entitled the next is TEXTBOOK. This is textbook bpDemon shit. What happens is when they feel happiness or see other people feeling happy, their nervous system flips out and makes them feel like DANGER DANGER, MUST DESTROY. Don't start like "I see her smile and act happy so she's not like that." They are sleeper agents, they don't even know what they are and switch identities and personalities like something out of a horror movie.On a practical level, what happens is she's going to act crazy, self-destructive and create problems out of nowhere, and even when you try to to talk to her rationally about mundane house chore type stuff it'll turn into big conflicts, she'll say "See, I told you I'm worthless and don't deserve happiness."You don't seem to understand...a damaged-goods female can casually literally wreck your life, career, criminal record, social standing/reputation, and your mental health in soul-deep ways that you might never figure out how to recover from for your entire life.>>34517884She's just as much of a predator as he is. The problem is he's ignorantly trying to start some white trash/ghetto textbook dysfunctional family that will bring down property values and have ugly mentally ill kids that damage my lawn. NPCs destroying society because they refuse to learn from other people's mistakes.
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>>34517477Sure, just do it. But have a plan about what to do with her once she turns BPD and tries to murder you in your sleep, or whatever happens and then you need to get rid of her. The issue of not self sustaining partners, no matter the age, is that you might feel too guilty to kick her out to be left homeless.
>>34518467>\s\s\sThis isn't reddit you fucking queer
Hmm.. She doesn't have ID but showed me her Social Security card with the numbers showing (lol). She's pretty racist doesn't like darkies/brownies and openly names THEM. She seems pretty literate at times and claims to be a mute or doesn't talk much. Also says I can do whatever I want to her whenever, and that I can put her in a box if she gets too fat.I can fix her.
lol is this the guy that fucked cassie
>>34517477Just inseminate her.
>>34517477What you’re suggesting immediately puts the girl in a position of reliance on you which is not good. If I were you I would not allow her to run away with you against her families wishes. It’s just dooming whatever relationship you hope to have with this girl. Because her family will never accept you after that. And if her family disowns her then she becomes YOUR responsibility. Doesn’t sound healthy for either of you desut. was 28 when I met my then 19 year old gf
This is bait right?If not, listen OP, I like 18 year olds as much as the next guy. You can have a relationship with her but maybe first live with her for a few months before you impregnate or marry her to see if you're actually compatible.If you don't have enough momentum and status to imprint on her she will leave you in her twenties
>>34517735>Girls moving in with guys is normal right, that's shit that just happens even if it's sudden sometimes.No, it is in no way normal for a high school girl you met on the internet who wants to run away from home to "suddenly move in", especially when what that means is her moving into your poorfag apartment. If you're making fucking $12k a year at 34 years old then you desperately need to focus on getting your life together, not fucking it up even worse for some crazy girl's pussy.You should know that people here aren't going to give you good advice. The only person you should be listening to in this thread is >>34517847. But based on >>34520678 I think you're an idiot and you deserve what you're going to get so yeah, go for it, we both know that you were going to to it anyway regardless of what anyone here tells you. But when you inevitably reach that point where it hits you that you've made a terrible mistake, remember that we told you so.
>>34517526Found the American.
