i thought i always wanted kids until I met a girl who told me she didnt want them. to me she was perfect until she said this. now ive been thinking about this topic all week. when i imagine what id do after college my thoughts arent "i want to be a dad" its "i want to learn to sing, i want to build an amazing body, i want to try streaming, i want to build a business, etc." There's so many things I could do if I didnt have kids. do you just know?
>>34517597It isn't an occupying thought for most but many women do get baby fever.I knew this girl, was engaged for 10 years and adamantly did not want kids. The guy ended up dumping her and within a year she married someone else and got a kid the following year. This was a staunch antinatalist feminist.Honestly though, you should hang out with this girl and never commit to anything until someone else comes along. Have fun.
>>34517606if she was that anti-children then could it be that she was coerced into having children? does she actually like having kids? i find it hard to believe beliefs just change like that
>>34517616Nah not coerced. She got baby fever and went mad.Women hold the beliefs that they have in the moment. They really so not care about them in reality and will 180 anything for social acceptance. All it takes is 3 girl friends of hers to tell her babies are awsome to flip her mind.For men, what changes our beliefs is the role we have. Bfs, husbands and fathers act differently.
>>34517616Unless it's her internal animal instinct and hooked up with chad. I've seen unbearable Cunty feminists get shy and red in the year and look at chad with such affection that you would not believe the horrible thing they say about men other times
>>34517597The best parents I've known were the ones who were scared to have kids, and the worst ones were those who made a big show of wanting kids and telling everyone they want kids. The ones who are scared to have kids are scared to fuck it up, and this means they actually care about doing a good job. The ones who virtue signal about wanting to be a parent, they only care for the image of the responsibility but not the actual work.
