I was with my girlfriend last night and we were looking through Uber Eats to order some food. When she opened the uber app I saw two addresses in the suggested ride apps, a bar we go to and a random house address 5 minutes away from where she lives. She told me she’s never been there before and even showed me her ride history and there was nothing there. I also have her location and check it regularly so I would e seen if she went there but it feels suspicious that specific address poped up.My girlfriend does deliver food for DoorDash frequently when she has free time so I’m thinking the address was just a random address that got pulled from her history/places she’s been to and it just suggested it to her. You can’t delete your ride history on uber and she showed me the full history so I don’t think she took a uber there. I also did research and I saw a few people online saying the same thing that sometimes uber will just suggest a random address that they’ve never been to.Thoughts? Am I just overthinking?
>>34517977She's been there and she's fucking the guy that lives there.
>>34517977>My girlfriend does deliver food for DoorDash frequently when she has free time so I’m thinking the address was just a random address that got pulled from her history/placesYou're right, she's probably just delivering food there (to her fuck buddy, who she fucks every time).
You're never going to know unless you catch her either in the act, texting, video/phone calls, or become autistic and hire someone to tail her around town for a bit. Sadly, even a woman who doesn't have obvious signs of cheating can still be cheating, so I'd try not to stress too much over it. Do with this information what you will.
>>34518147This. Don't worry about it lil bro she's just getting her brains fucked out by someone else
>>34517977>I also have her location and check it regularlyCreep
>>34517977Reveal embarassing information about yourself to her. See if she still likes you despite that. Lie to her that you can't afford rent and have to sleep on the side of the road if you have to. See if she stays.
>>34517977A quick search on the internet reveals that Uber will recommend rides to places you commonly visit, even if you are not using Uber to get there. So her Uber ride history is clean, that doesn't mean she doesn't go there often.Does she project things around cheating? Like "I literally hate that guy he's a piece of shit," talk about cheating, talk about exes, etc.? If you have a gut feeling besides this Uber address thing, it's probably happening. I say this as a dude that was cheated on and my ex had a doordash address saved for some dude's apartment she was fucking. I know it's not quite the same but it's still a pretty common way of catching it nowadays.
>>34517977>>34518221To add to this do you have reason not to trust her? And if so, you can press and see if she gets overly emotional about it, defensive, or even outright confesses. It's not jealousy or hypervigilance, it's protection of your own interests and of your relationship.
>>34518221>>34518227I’m not going to lie I do have a gut feeling but she’s never really given me a reason not to trust her, I think it’s because I’ve been cheated on in past relationships. We hang out every single day and I spend the night at her place every night so I don’t even know when she would have the time to cheat. We also have each others locations and I do view it frequently and I’ve never seen her go there or anywhere that’s suspicious. The only thing she does that’s kind of sus is that it seems like she dosent completely trust me either, but it’s because there was a incident in the past that happened which causes her to lose trust in me, but now I’m scared it might be projection. We’ve been dating officially for two months and we spend every day together so like I said I don’t even know when we’d have the time. Also went I kept pushing about the address thing she got upset because she swears she doesn’t know anyone who lives there and feels like she’s being interrogated on something she didn’t do. We also have each others phone passwords and I’ve gone through her phone a few times while she was asleep and I never found anything. How should I proceed?
>>34517977>I also have her location and check it regularlyyeah, you're this paranoid, clingy fuck- is it any surprise she wants to get away and fuck someone else?>When she opened the uber app I saw two addresses in the suggested rideyeah this just doesnt happen. She's seeing someone else. You can't stop women from cheating, all you can really do is mind your own life and business.>>34518695>I spend the night at her place every night>we spend every day togetherterminally clingy loser. Mind your own life and business. No wonder she goes to someone else. A Chad who isn't so focused on a girl. That is not you. Kek. Goodluck little bitch.
>>34518060>You're right, she's probably just delivering food there (to her fuck buddy, who she fucks every time).>>34518708>You can't stop women from cheating, all you can really do is mind your own life and business.This right here.
>>34518695Woah okay then, I'd actually either back down from it or break it off with her if I were you. I was under the impression that this was a long-term relationship. She could be fucking this guy, she could have been fucking this guy a couple months ago, before you started dating, or this could be nothing.If you stick with her I'd try to lay off the location checking and phone digging and shit, spend a little more time just by yourself and be a little more aloof than you are cause I can tell this thing you have isn't going to work lol.
