> be me> 18> only guy in a tiny ballet company> been dancing with the same girls since we were like 5> had a crush on one of them forever before anyone says it; i'm like 6ft, pretty fit from dancing for 13 years straight not ugly imo had a few girlfriends before, only real flaw is some acne but it's not even that bad finally stop being a pussy and ask this chick to prom, calling her while pacing around my deck nervous as hell she says shit like "i think you're awesome" "i've thought about dating you before" "maybe in a few years i'd love to"im tweaking out atpthen the next day she says prom won't work because she has family in towndamn alright.we still dance together constantlyalways get cast as romantic leads too which absolutely does not help me get over her had extra rehearsal saturday, i ask if she wants to grab coffee before class at this cafe next to the studioshe says she'd love to but can't that day i tell her no worries maybe another timenow i'm sitting here trying to figure out ifshe actually likes me and the timing is just weird, or if she's trying to let me down easy and i'm too blinded to see itbecause honestly this girl feels different from anyone else i've dated like i've known her my entire life at this point never actually wanted a serious relationship this badly before am i cooked or do i still have a chance boys
>>34518059I think you have a chance, she just has had other stuff, which is normal. Just keep trying to find a date that works
>>34518076I agree with this anon. She hasn't actually rejected you.
Ive been thinking on it, and im not gonna quit. i really love this girl. and ive never been more sure about anything.
>>34518059Play it cool with an emotionally secure attachment but have other things going on in your life that are sincerely satisfying.
>>34518059>now i'm sitting here trying to figure out if>she actually likes me and the timing is just weird, or if she's trying to let me down easy and i'm too blinded to see iti don't think it's either one, sadlyi think she's trying to avoid the issue out of convenience, since you two work together
>>34518076>>34518206this is a good idea though, just keep directly askingyou still have a chance but you need to keep askingdon't be afraid about pushing too hardeventually you'll get a clear yes or no
>>34518059Wouldnt you rather date a guy insteadYou dont need a beard in 2026, cupcake
>>34520797this is what i was originally thinking, im not sure if i put it in OP but she was talking about concerns with what the other girls in the company would think and if any of them liked me. i always joke about doki doki ballet club but its getting a little to real now lol
>>34520806you might be right bro thanks for the offer, whats your discord?
