is my uncle a creep?i’ve gotten a very weird feeling from him for a long time but i don’t know.. maybe i’m just bullying an autistic person for his off vibes. he has done some things but nothing very damning. i have no one to talk to about this and i’ve been wondering about this for a while so thought i’d ask here. here’s a couple things he’s done, is this weird or nothere was an instance where i came out of my room late and he was like what were you doing in there with a weird smirk. i went with him on a trip when i was 13 one night i couldnt sleep and he was like come sleep in the bed with me so i did and when i got back my mom asked me did you sleep in the same bed and i said no for some reason. asked me what do you think about guys who are 5’6 (he’s like 5’8). i interpreted this question as him seeing if i like short men cause he’s a bit short. asked me if masculine or pretty boys are better.will sometimes bring up sexual topics but thats not weird on its own. kissed me on the neck twice and i don’t think he would do that if anyone else was around. i don’t like the way he talks to me in general he gives me the creeps. anyways i need some perspective, let me know if i’m overthinking. he’s very kind to me, not like the typical creepy family member. like he is genuinely very caring and acts as a third parent.
>>34518097>is my uncle a creep?nah don't worry sound like he just wants to fuck is all
>>34518097He comes off as a little creepy, but he's probably just desperate. It sounds like you're the only woman in his life, and his frustration permeates his interactions with you. But at the same time, he isn't really crossing any line.
>>34518143he was always single until recently. if that's true, it's fucked up to kind of project that on a child and close family member. it's not like he really did anything though i'm fine but i just want to know if this is in my head because it's not an insignificant part of my life, i saw him almost every day. i also feel bad for him though, i would never want him to know that i think this about him. i just don't know if this is in my head or not. my parents are chill with him.
>>34518162>>34518097Don't spend too much time with him. Especially don't be where he can rape.
>>34518097You sound a whole lot creepier than him
>>34518184how
>>34518162>my parents are chill with him.Of course they're cool with their brother/brother-in-law. People normally don't try to imagine the most disgusting betrayal they could face, and will actively deny it if they can. My parents were cool with my cousin who molested me from age 7-9. She was like another daughter to them, she'd never abuse her youngest little cousin. When I tried to tell them they got mad at me thinking I was lying and had been watching things I shouldn't because I knew a lot more about things I shouldn't have at 7. It went on for 2 more years till she finally moved away. What your parents think doesn't necessarily matter, especially when you haven't told them everything.
>>34518192By being creeped out by perfectly normal things
>>34518233that's exactly why i'm making this thread, to know if i'm overthinking
>>34518097He certainly seems like one and a pedo as well
