Two weeks ago a new girl joined the company I work for. I think she's really beautiful, and she's single too. She likes to "play" with me by holding my clothes and telling me I own her money or whatever. Anyway, this was the boring part. I'm really worried about how she does the same thing with 2 other dudes there. One of those dudes is married and he told me to go for it because, according to him, "she's up to whoever appears first."I really don't know if I should try my luck or ignore her until the other guy goes first because then she'll be dead to me. I don't want anything casual because I want a relationship, and I don't know if she's there just to fuck everybody who looks at her. I need this job, and I'm a pussy with thin skin who hides well, but I would die inside if things went wrong with her and I was forced to face her twice a day in there.What to do?
>>34520302>She likes to "play" with me>she does the same thing with 2 other dudesIt sounds like it's just her way of "being polite" AKA getting attention. If it bothers you now, it'll bother you 10 times as much if things don't go well, and 100 times as much if they do, but she doesn't tone it down.>I need this job, and I'm a pussy with thin skinThere's your answer. "Don't shit where you eat" retards are retarded - the real danger is that you won't be able to get over her or leave, and you'll be stuck in the room with her forever. I had a thing with a coworker, and now I have to hide from her, because a mere sight of her makes me want to puke.
>>34520302The way I see it, you have two options:You can either ask her out on a date, and assuming she says yes and it goes well you can say something like>I think you're very attractive and I've enjoyed spending time with you. I'd like to organise another meeting and see where this goes. I'm at a stage in my life where I'm looking for something to last, and I want to be clear about that before this goes any further.Alternatively, you can meekly say nothing, and when she eventually fucks someone else from your office you can take that as evidence that the cards are stacked against you, you're wojak and he's chad, there's no point in trying, nice guys finish last and the world is shit.Take your pick.
