And you all warned me of what would happen when I posted about it. I thought my family wouldn't have betrayed me like this. For any of you who come here to give genuine advice to people in need, bless you. I should have listened. I feel absolutely awful with where I am now.
>>34520388what happened?i didn't read the previous thread, you should try to make advice threads self-containedbut sorry anon
>>34520418I wrote a very long blog about it and don't feel like searching the archives for it, but the outcome after my dad died was basically: the rest of my family began harassing me for money, including my older siblings, because I was the only one working and no one else wanted to get a job. The family was running low on finances and became increasingly desperate. They began blaming me for all the problems in the house, and I was threatened with homelessness. During this time, under a lot of stress, I did something very costly --- costing me a substantial amount of my net worth ---- I lost practically everything, including my job, car, and years of savings.very easily could have prevented most of this by just leaving my family, but i was afraid to go because i have never lived alone.
>>34520445ah i seei've heard cases kinda like this but i woulnd't really know how to navigate itbut yeah, all those family members are NOT your financial responsibility, unless that's something you choose to take oncan't let them pressure youyou chose to work and they (i guess?) chose not toso if you've lost all those things now, are you still living with the family?how tense are things, and are they looking for money in other ways?do you think you can get another job easily, maybe through people or things you knew?shouldn't be afraid to live alone, if the opportunity presents itself again
>>34520388You could have moved out and got a subscription to a food delivery service like CookUnity, if you were worried about food.
>>34520507is this a shill post or what?there is blatant shilling from fucking fast food companies on /ck/, so i'm paranoid at this pointi've seen dead alt chans flooded with various shills/ads, too
>>34520518No, just a solution you had when you had money. I don't work for CookUnity or any other food service.
>>34520445Moving out on my own was the best decision of my life. 6+ years i'll never ever live with a family member again keep them away from me
>>34520507Do it again and I’ll f u up.>>34520388How much left do we have to work with? Nothing at all?
>>34520388If it exposed them for what they are, got them off your back, and taught you some valuable life lessons, it was cheap at any price.
>>34520388The worst side of people come out after death and divorce. The greed is unreal. I'm sorry that happened to you. My FIL died earlier in the year and FIL's brother sent the siblings across the country to eyeball the house and see if they could get a piece of it.
>>34520388>And you all warned me of what would happen when I posted about it.What did "we" warn you about?
>>34521179I don't take to threats easily, you stupid fuck. You only feel like you can do it because you know My Dad will have mercy on you. You're the stupidest mfer on Earth.
>>34523613Who?
>>34520445are you from central/south america by chance?
