I was out at a bar tonight and I was alone. My wife is traveling so I went to a random bar to have a couple drinks and mull around with my thoughts kill time.I sat at the bar, and nearby there was a group of 6 or so people hanging out, clearly coworkers or colleagues. After I’d been sitting for a round, a woman walked over to me and started flirting. She was pretty drunk, but she was gorgeous and thought I was funny. She was traveling in from the West Coast (I’m East Coast). I bought her a round and we talked for a bit. She touched my wrist and shoulder a couple times. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. Eventually, after I finished my round, I paid and said goodbye.I hate that I did that. I didn’t end up texting her, and I forgot her number at this point. Even when I asked, I didn’t plan on actually texting her.I just felt good to have a woman who I felt was out of my league approach me and flirt with me. I got married early and never really got to “play the game”. Not that I’ve ever really wanted to, it’s not like I seek out women to fake flirt with. The brief period I did date before finding my wife, I hated it. I love my wife, she makes me feel loved and seen, we have sex pretty frequently and I’m not dissatisfied with anything. But girls never approached me in high school, I used to be fat and dressed poorly. Now that I’m older, I’m decently fit and dress well, I’ve reigned in my autism a bit, and occasionally women will engage me, but I always immediately divert because my girlfriend or a friend is present and I don’t want to look bad.I don’t know, I didn’t really do anything that significant, I just feel like an asshole.
>My wife is traveling so I went to a random bardo normies really
>>34520861>I’ve reigned in my autismreined
>>34520861Your wife is getting creampied by multiple men each night on her "travels", and you're worried about asking a woman for her number?
>>34520990Well, she’s not, hence why I feel bad
Matthew 5:28: "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."If you don't put yourself in positions to cheat in the first place, you won't have to feel guilty for cheating. Get a hobby or something
>>34521067Oh you swent summer childEver notice how her pussy tastes like cum when she comes back from her travels?
>>34520990>Your wife is getting creampied by multiple men each night on her "travels", and you're worried about asking a woman for her number?This right here, always dropping the hardest pills to swallow, but I guarantee it's much easier than all the cum OP's wife is gulping in her travels >>34520861>My wife is travelinglmao
OP, I just want to let you know that your wife is probably cheating on you, of course, this shouldn't be used as an excuse to cheat on her as well, because we could also be wrong (very slim chances). You trying to get someone else number mean you're unhappy in your current relationship and you should talk to your wife.
>>34524839>Hey goy, your wife is drinking galloons of cum in her travels>But you're going to hell because you asked a girl for her numberThe absolute state of this board...
>>34520861>My wife is travelingWhy is she travelling without you Anon?
>>34520861So what do you want advice about?
>>34520861you flirted with a girl and she touched your wrist and you got her number. Most people go further than that. You didn't cheat, you didn't even kiss, and you still feel terrible about it. That means you are a good person. Don't worry
>>34520861>but I always immediately divert because my girlfriend or a friend is present and I don’t want to look bad.What, why. Nothing wrong with some noncommital flirting. Chicks dig it when you're clearly desired by others but ultimately stick with her as number one.
>>34525881>>34526011Bad advice. If your wife is out traveling, chances are she has plenty of opportunity and doesn't take it, and if I was her, I'd expect the same in return. Which you haven't done.My personal advice is to just suck it up and tell her. There are times when you gotta own up to your shit and face the music, even if you didn't mean to do what you did.
>>34526192>Which you haven't done.We have a saying here, "eat at home". OP didn't do anything tangible, and I'd be surprised if his wife didn't flirt occasionally. Flirting is simple social interaction, nothing more.
>>34526240Alright, a few things>Flirting is simple social interactionIt can be, but depends on the relationship and how you flirt. Here, there wasn't just an escalation, as I'd go so far as to say that the last part, asking for the woman's number, is outside the scope of flirting, that's showing commitment to something more. That's what you do when you move on from flirting:>OP didn't do anything tangibleThat is something tangible. Leaning in for a kiss and backing out is still cheating for most people.Lastly:>I'd be surprised if his wife didn't flirt occasionallyI have no reason to think so, but let's say you're right. Judging from OP's stance, do you think he'd be okay if he found out she was flirting with other people? That she asked strangers for their number at a bar?
>>34520861>I just feel like an asshole.You should.
>>34520861Everyone is going to flirt a little bit outside of their relationships, in my opinion what you did was no wrong at all unless you intended to take it further which it seems you did not.It's natural to develope crushes and such, but the wrongness is when you act upon them.
