Am I weird if I'm turned off by people wanting to be "used" sexually?Don't get me wrong, I love sex, I just find the whole "use me like a sex toy" thing to be so incredibly cringe.
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>>34521000Personally I agree. But more than finding it cringe I just like the idea of the person I'm having sex with too much to just focus on me. Also I'm a soft bitch so if "being used" implies violence/being too rough I just can't, too wrapped up in my own head to do stuff that isn't kinda typical.
>>34521000Pick pretty much any sexual behavior you have ever heard of and ask 100 people 'am I weird to like/not like this' - you will not get a consensus one way or the other.Why the fuck do people keep asking questions like this. Like what you like, dislike what you dislike, who fucking cares what somebody else thinks about it?
>>34521000i agreei'm dominant but the free use thing completely lacks intimacy, i don't see the appeal. it seems like something you could only enjoy if you're insanely addicted to porn
>>34523549>omg why do people like hearing the viewpoints of otherslol dude doesn't understand the point of the internet
>>34521000No, not weird.
>>34523554meh or if you got trauma. if someone sources their value that way it works.
I don't think you're weird. Compared to most, I'm kind of a prude. I don't want to entertain the whole "use me like a sex toy" thing along with "rape" kinks or BDSM. It's fucken weird
>>34521000If you don't share someone's kink and can't understand how someone could be turned on by it, that's fine - and normal. Most kinks don't make logical sense, and are hard for someone who doesn't have it to understand. But if you disapprove of someone for having a particular kink, on the whole that's not okay. The mantra is: "Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is okay". (YKINMKBYKIO).
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