>be me 33yo bald, tall, fit semi-virgin (no sex after pandemic) never been in a relationship>meet through friends a really cute, petite girl>exchanged non-stop messages for almost 2 weeks, met 2 times>great chemistry, enjoying each others company, laughs at my dumb jokes>gave me dove eyes, invited me to her placeNow here's the issue: I don't like her body, she looks like a child, no curves, broad shoulders. I'm not sure if this is due to her condition as she has deformed feet and walks with a limp. But the thing is I like thick, chubby women with big asses and it doesn't help that I'm also well endowed...Because of this I haven't even kissed her as I don't want to lead her on. But at the same time, she is insanely cute and we get along great so I'm kinda torn.I also never been in a relationship (which is strange at my age), don't really know how to kiss nor fuck that well, didn't really put myself out there so I might learn some things from being with a girl that likes me. But I don't want to make her a practice gf as that's shitty thing to do. I also get this maddening feeling when I see a big assed girl on the street knowing full well that I might dig myself into a relationship with someone that I don't enjoy her body.Help me /adv/. Did any of you dealt with this before? should I bite the bullet and see where this goes while risking hurting her?
>>34522805>semi-virgin (no sex after pandemic)What?
>>34522810Normgroids are mentally retarded like that
>>34522810>>34522841Haven't had sex in 6 years, frends. It's been so long...I only fucked twice.
>>34522810fucking normgroids appropriating my culture again
>>34522805There's no point in being with someone you don't find attractive. Convert the current girl into a friend if you can and find someone else.
>>34522805why date someone you're not attracted to? it will never not be a problem if it already is now don't waste her time or yours
>>34522805she's probably thinking>yeah I don't really like bald guys and he's a bit up himself but he'll do for a shag until something better comes alongLike don't think she'll be throwing herself off a bridge if it doesn't really go anywhere, it's a bit presumptious.Fact is, you have no idea what sex with her might be like until you have it. I has basically your situation in reverse (I like athletic girls and she was a bit of a porker) but we got down to it and the sex was actually really good. Didn't end up as a long term thing but we had some fun and ended it amicably, which you should be capable of doing at 33.
>>34523306>>34523338Thing is I find her really cute and enjoy spending time together but get put off by her childlike body.>>34523594She said she has been in a rut for quite some years similar to me.I guess I can go to her place, ask her what she wants from this and see where it leads to.
>semi-virgin (no sex after pandemic)Do normgroids really?
First of all, beggars can't be choosers. You literally didn't have sex for 6 years, you balding dumbass will probably be single forever like this.Second, you certainly are porn brained, conditioned to watching big cellulite bundas bouncing on dick, fix yourself.Third, at least your concern for her is commendable, I'll give you that.Finally, if you want a relationship you have to value the personality more. Physical attraction absolutely matters, but the opposite situation (being in a relationship primarily due to sexual attraction/chemistry) can be soul crushing. I made that mistake, out of many girls I had sex with I picked the best sex rather than the one I had the most fun with / clicked the most. Years down the line and I was not happy at all.>>34523594This as well, lol
Hi, I'm the guy who made the thread about liking thick/chubby girls and falling for a thin girl. Sometimes you end up becoming physically attracted as your romantic attraction goes stronger. Admittedly tho I am completely disinterested in petite women. My girl may be slim, but she still has an hourglass figure. Doesn't mean it can't happen for you tho.
>>34522805If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractive. If the packaging is a deal-breaker, the attraction to the person inside can't be all that strong.
>>345247691. I was quite fine with being foreveralone but also had this nagging thought that I should at least try to see what this relationship stuff is all about2. Haven't opened a porn site in 6 years. I'm just attracted to big butts my dudethx for the input tho>>34524808Hi, this girl has no shapes, just a really cute face>>34525006The thing is that she acts and looks childish and is kind of a prude, barely flirts she can be serious but i find it hard to talk sexy with her.
>>34522805>>34522856>semi-virginYou could say that if you were drunk during your first time and don't even remember it. But this is silly. I remember an anon saying years ago that having accidental one night stands is even worse than being a virgin. Because you don't even get the clout or sympathy for being a virgin anymore, yet you feel just as horrible. Well, that's you now.
