Married too early.Problem is I never really got to explore with many girls, and I'm legit good at fucking. I have great stamina, I'm not shit, I picked girls and my wife up and toss them around because I'm muscular, I have a nicely shaped cock, I know how to work around a woman's body and make her wet before any penetration even happened.My wife is nice and has big boobs but all I wanted was to have sex with more girls, different ethnicities, older milfs etc, before I committed to 1 wife. I'm unironically too honorable to cheat.Anything I should do? I cope with fapping a couple times a week, it takes the edge off knowing I could take any girl at work or at the gym and fuck her brains out.
Read Way of the Superior Man, it addresses this directly
>>34522872Or you could just post the snippet that addresses it because it's two entire pages>>34522839>WAAAHHHHH IM CHAD MY WIFE HAS FAT TITS AND IM SADPoor guy
>>34522839If your wife isn't ugly, you're in a good spot. If you married down, that would burn for sure
you divorce and fuck womenor stop wanting to fuck other womennot alot of choices there
>>34522839>I'm muscular, have a nicely shaped cockHave you tried gay porn? That sounds more like your alley.
>>34522839>I'm unironically too honorable to cheat.clearly you're not since you're thinking about it. divorce her
>>34522931>Or you could just post the snippet that addresses it because it's two entire pagesI don’t feel bad tiktok has ruined your attention span zoom zoom.
Why are men like this?
>>34523047Because the same masculine hormones that we use to pursue and date/marry a woman never actually end, it keeps burning a hole in our minds. I applaud OP for his honesty. He's the least likeliest to cheat his wife. The type of men most likely to cheat are the ones who pretend to be Romeos, who pretend they don't have a sex drive and act above their own primal identity, pretending he is Mr nice loyal man, that's the one who fucks your female friends and beats you. >>34522839>Anything I should do?Yeah get busy, not sure what you do with your life but make sure you fill your time up with lots of shit to do that has nothing to do with women or sex or anything reminding you of it. Find a hobby, a job you enjoy, start a project, pick up a skill, do more on errands or chores, create more time for creativity, or leisure. The more you expand your life in different areas the less important pussy becomes, the more happier you will be with your wife. Remember bro: All the shit you are tempted by is just fantasy. Fantasy isnt reality, reality is your wife was the one who stood face to face with you and said "I do" during the vow. All the porn-inspired fantasy women ain't doing what your wife did. Even if you could find and fuck women of every skin color or maturity, they'd never commit. Your fun would start and end at an orgasm and your marriage enjoyment would be ruined, but you already know that. Think of it like this: Every single woman has tits, every single woman has a vagina, they're not that special, there's 5,000,000,000 (five billion) vaginas out there, they're all wet they all bleed they all grip dick. There's no point wondering what they're all like it's a pointless exercise, you got a wife and she has a vagina but more importantly she has a heart and you have your own to her, and her to you. And that shit is priceless.
>>34522839>>34523088>ContinuedAlso don't fall for your own bullshit mind games. You say you married too early because you wanted to fuck more women of different backgrounds first. You gotta acknowledge that's you kidding yourself, because if it were true, you'd have done that already before meeting your wife. You presumably had lots of time somewhere to do that, but you didn't. And the reason you didn't is because it was not as important as you currently think it is. You didn't do it because you didn't make the time for it, because you didn't see that as important or even a big deal. (And it's not a big deal at all). But you got married and you panic that you missed out in it, only because now you know the opportunity for it has now closed off forever. But if you remember the fact you never chased it to begin with when you had the chance because it wasn't important, you will stop panicking so much. Your mind is just freaking out about the sense of permanent change, that's all. Deep down it's not even about sex or sex with other women that's just your male mind trying to problem solve its own emotions. The real root emotion is you're just feeling nervous, because it's been a big change and a permanent one at that. It's an identity crisis of sorts, but it will fade and you will adapt bro, I promise you.
I feel you broNot married but 1st gf in a long time and I am pissed at women not looking my way ever. I have a big dick and great sex game (fit + stamina + kegels + the making her wet part, god I love the squirt) but I cant use it for shit. I also don't want to do degrading stuff with my gf because I dont wanna ruin her like that.I wish I could get sluts' attention and slap and mouthfuck and spit on them and shit. I wanna fuck younger and older pussy too.Sucks man, sucks
>>34523042>gorilla nigger millennicuck reading comprehensionHow would I know what %age of the fucking book that chapter occupies if I didn't read the entire thing first?
>>34522839bro dont fucking cheat, if you do your some fucking retarted male, and shouldnt never marry first place, get those thoughts out of ur head
If you're as much a Chad as you claim, ypu shouldn't have a hard time convincing your wife to invite her friends to the bedroom..
>>34522839>I'm unironically too honorable to cheat.Ha ha! Clearly you're not.
>>34523466Yeah man, definitely this. I might be indoctrinated or whatever you want to call it, but I wouldn't want to ruin my wife by having degrading sex acts with her. At the end of the day she's still my wife and I value her presence and well-being. I don't have any issue with other women though.>>34524542I haven't acted on it despite the fact that I can. I value my wife as more than the sex she provides me, but that's also the curse because I want more sex than what she can offer.>>34523096Oh shit you hit the nail, it is an identity crisis, I've always liked to be with women but at the same time I fell for the family meme. Now that I'm stuck with the family aspect of life, I wish I could go back to having many women. But I know if I stayed as I've been and didn't get married, I would have regretted it. The grass is always greener and I know that.I just don't know how to cope with it other than fapping and cheating (not an option). I've getting really serious in the gym lately because of this, but even at the gym I'm having fantasies with all the cardio butt bunnies there
>>34524654>I just don't know how to cope with it other than fapping and cheating (not an option). I've getting really serious in the gym lately because of this, but even at the gym I'm having fantasies with all the cardio butt bunnies thereFind a different activity that has zero cardio butt bunnies. Becoming a husband and/or father is around the time to pick up some sick man activities like DIY, Camping, Survivalism, Bushcraft, Fishing or Hunting etc etc. If you are after a MILF check out mother nature she's a milf bro. For real though consider new activities and make new ideas on what to do with yourself, it's pretty fun when you get into it. When I got married I got into metalwork
>>34522839Don't cheat on your woife. If you need variety get something like picrel.
All the guys who dont get you just have shit sex game (which honestly, I think 90% of men do)When you have a big dick, good stamina, you know how to arouse a woman and your dick enters a wet pussy and then your girl has a red vagina from all the jackhammering and multiple orgasms, when she actually tells you please stop because its too much... Sex is not only a pleasurable activity but also a fun one, like when you are good at a sport and you want to play against multiple opponents to test your skillsThen you wonder how it would be to test your skills against small women, big women, old women with experience, fucking an ass, doing all sorts of things because its fun. If you are good at tennis you dont want to play always in the same pitch against the same opponentsYour options are either straight up cheat or cope eternally. Dont let people with a small pp or shit sex game tell you otherwise. Make your mind, this is the way it goes.But hey, at least your wife should be getting good pipe. Just know every other girl is jealous and wants to know whats up when they hear about it... Good ego boost
>>34523466It’s like having a good product but shit advertising. I’m in the same boat. I dated an older woman. One time I was mating pressing her and pounding her and after she came she said I give her the best sex she’s ever had. I’d bend her over her kitchen counter—one time while her kids were home—or fuck her on a table. I’d pronebone her, rub her clit, press on top of her, hold her neck and make her cum constantly. I’d bite her ear and grip her hair and force her head back and then kiss her really gently. I’d tickle her during it. I’d spank her nice ass and tie her wrists and blindfold her—she loved that. I’d tease her so bad she’d rock her hips and beg me to fuck her. Then after all that I’d hold the back of her head and fuck her while staring into her eyes. It was amazing but that was years ago. I’m pretty shy irl— private, and I have trouble with women my age/ younger. Idk why. I’m living with my folks now so that makes it difficult too. Thanks for reading my blog
>>34523466Women are not giving you attention because they don't want to get in trouble and or cause problems
>>34525338What? Explain yourselfWomen don't give me attention because my looks are not sufficient to counteract my autism. At least I'm giving good sex to my gfWtf are you on about bro???
>>34522839Same boat, though I fucked 12 before marriage. Another 10ish I only got to 3rd base. Got married at 24 because we did a bunch of acid together for a whole summer and I lost perspective on what I wanted out of life. Now I sit around most days wishing I could do polyamory shit or get into swinging. I don't want to cheat on my wife, I'd rather she got to join in on the fun. I just don't think sex is anywhere near as important as the average poster here thinks. It's like a really fun handshake.
>>34522839If you cheat on your wife make sure she never finds out. And make sure you don't feel guilty about it.
>>34524661Ultimately it will still bring me back to fapping or just sex with my wife. I have discovered that about myself, that "activities" don't mean shit. To have an activity will only delay the time I WILL fap by a few hours. The time will come when I'll get home, and them I'll fap thinking about some woman or hot milf or tight cardio chick at the gym, or even my wife (she's attractive).It's all a cope still, I have an immense sex drive and my wife can't keep up, and I wish I would have experienced more with more women or more backgrounds and styles before getting married.Alas I fell for the family man trick and I'm stuck with a normal woman as my wife and sex fantasies.>>34524875Straight up. Straight up. There's literally no options and it makes me dread life just thinking about it. No matter if you have the best product in the world, if you can't sell it, it's a waste of time the whole thing.Thing is, I don't even consider visiting escorts as cheating. I would legit do it, but I'd hate to just get a random fucking STD. I know a guy who got HCV.One time I was this close to cheat on my wife with her best friend, I just know she wants the pipe but again, I'm too honorable for such easy wins. I could have done it so easily, it's incredible to me how some guys legit struggle with getting sex from women. It's as easy as getting in close proximity to her. As soon as that happens, she's mine
>>34525916Easier said than done. I'm giving women what's their due, they're very good at observing and picking up cues. If you've been cheating, she'll know it before you're even out of post nut clarity.
>>34525911For me it was felling for the family meme.I thought I wanted to have a family and lots of kids and grandkids and grow old with a bunch of kids all around me. Not sure what hit me so bad, I was never so delusional beforehand. Then I got too deep into family and marriage and stuff and now I'm stuck with a wife that's admitedly pretty good, but also this sense of loss opportunities and self-lie.If I'm really honest, all I want to do in this life is have sex and do sports. That's it.
>>34525925Are you me? I won't write a blog post cause you already covered the gist of it, but I've been with my wife 15 yrs. We're both attractive, she's a literal milf and I still have women flirt with me. Cheating would be easy but I have no desire to do that. I want to fuck my wife more, and it's good when we do it. Only problem is my sex drive is 2x what hers is. If we did it more than once a week that would be an improvment. All I want is her to want me more. Is that even possible anymore or am I cooked?
>>34522839Your self description sounds like you write homosexual fanfics for a living.Anyways, just talkt to your wife about it and maybeo open up the relationship. Seeing that you can make a woman wet by just looking at her, you really shouldn't have any insecurities when she fucks a few guys herself as well.
>>34525925the best friend heard from your wife the pipe you were laying and she wants a taste too, legitI know a guy who banged almost all of highschool girls in his grade and women in friend groups because he has a big dick and knows how to use it. Women talk is like 50% sex lmao. I should present my gf to my friends at some point to bank on thisWhich goes to show, having a big dick + good sex game is legit not that common because if it were, there would not be that many copers in this threadAs for why many men struggle with getting sex with women, it usually boils down to looks most of the time. For me I already stated my reason: my looks do not overcome my autism. It really is sad, because as you said, it doesnt matter if you have the best product in the world if nobody is buying it
These problems got a lot better for me after working on my metabolic energy.These desires come directly from stress, i.e. living in a hypometabolic state.
>>34522839>Problem is I never really got to explore with many girlsDo pdople really want to ruin their marriage for garbage reasons like that?
>>34522839Be grateful you have a wife and good relationship with her. Many men get nothing. Don't watch porn, don't allow yourself to have sexual thoughts about other women. If you catch yourself fantasising about other women, redirect your thoughts to be about your wife instead.
>>34523088>there's 5,000,000,000 (five billion) vaginas out there, they're all wet they all bleed they all grip dick. My wife's pussy and my girlfriend's pussy feel totally different. Wife's is meaty and plump and big Labia with a deep canal.My girlfriend's pussy is tiny, tight, kinda curves inside, and shallower.
>>34527492I'll presume you aren't LARPing and take your post as true. Just wanna point out your wife is more attracted to you than the girlfriend. Pussy canals retract during arousal, so if your wife consistently has a deep canal it means you turn her on. The girlfriend has a shallow one which means it doesn't retract for you, means she isn't into you.
>>34522839are you retarded? nobody forced you to marry earlyim honestly thinking threads like this are humble brag cope chad posts if that was the case you literally wouldnt have married its as simple as that, there was most likely a reason why you in fact married the first broad you could get
>>34522839Keep fucking the same woman and you will come to the gnosis that they are all the same. Nothing dishonourable about having the same one forever. They are all the same.
>>34527515It's mainly because Wife is 5'10" and has curves, bigger frame (not fat). About 150 lbs.Girlfriend is 5'2" weighs about a 100 lbs. Tiny ass, tiny tits. Tiny pussy.Very different body shapes.
>>34527515I'll let you in on a secret: Women aren't into the habit of regularly sleeping with men they are not into. Unless its some transactional shit where he pays her money or is her boss or whatever.
Even if you had a hoe phase you'd still feel this way. You need to adjust your mindset. I tried every type of cock before my man and still sometimes look and think about sex with other guys it's called being a human being. I don't cheat though because I'm in relationship mode, I love him too much to risk his health or happiness having hookupsMaybe adjust your thinking. You didn't miss out you locked down a great woman and already know what sex with the other women would be like you aren't retarded. Perhaps change up where you guys fuck? My bf and I have an exhibitionist kink and he fucks me in changing rooms and on trails. Sometimes he pretends he's another man stealing me away and says not to tell my bf it's hot
