How do I stop my girlfriend from getting upset when I go out with my friends? We usually spend the weekends together at home and go out together pretty often, but whenever I tell her I’m going out with my friends when she’s busy she gets upset and says I don’t put enough effort in doing the same stuff with her as with my friends. Or she says they’re just looking to talk to girls and I am too, even though that’s never the case. We are both early 20s and been together 4+ years and this has been a recurring issue. Any psychological conditioning hack for this?
>>34524343No hack, sorry. She is insecure and there isn't much you can do about it, it's her problem to solve, sorry bud
>>34524343A woman is always the reflection of her man. If you are a weak apologetic worm, then of course she will react this way, how can she trust a worm. Actually think about her and make her your priority. Her complaints aren't about you going out with your friends, it's a consequence of a lack of intimacy and love. Do this correctly and transform yourself into a real man and you can even fuck other girls and she will be ok with it
That truly is the issue, very accurate. I do love her but am fairly emotionally distant and don’t like to open up to her much. I know that getting to that point is personal and different for every relationship, but any advice on moving in that direction?
>>34524578Well it's not that easy, it's a complex issue but I can give you some things to think about. >Identify why you are behaving that way with her. Is it a general thing? Is it specific to her? Maybe you don't actually like her and just like having a girl in your lifeIf you don't look at her and think that she is an amazing human being first, then an amazing woman with a lot of potential, then why are you wasting both of your time? Let her go to find someone who is ready for her and you start working on growing as a man.>What is your purpose as a man? Do you know yourself? Do you know where you are headed and what you desire? Where do you want to be in 5 years, in 10 years, and how will your life look like when you are old? Don't think about what house will you have or what cars, but actually how will you be? Will you be a man who is good at everything? Will you be someone who can protect his family and others? Are you an example for others or someone to look up to?>How comfortable are you with sacrifices? Especially when in a relationship as a man.Men carry relationships and marriages. Everything rests on them. Your woman's emotional storms, your finances, your direction, your own emotional problems and uncertainties; all will be managed by you or fucked up by you. If you grow enough you can handle them with skill and ease (not easy, but with ease). You have to be put together most of the time because life will only want to take from you, thus you will always sacrifice things (time, attention, pleasure, etc). But being that man who can sacrifice with ease and not anxiously need things brings the greatest satisfaction in life, so it will feel amazing. Tiring but amazing. There's no easy answer. You can be anyone you want, you can achieve (almost) anything you desire. You just have to become the person who can have them.
>>34524343Insecurity is a good thing. She should always know in the back of her mind that you have other options.>>34524578You do NOT open up to women. That's cuck behavior.
>>34524666>Insecurity is a good thing. She should always know in the back of her mind that you have other options.She knows and understands this when you are man which everyone wants and loves, not by being manipulative. Jesus how did you people get so fucked when it comes to relationships.How about she thinks she is lucky to have you and admires you instead of being in a state of constant paranoia that you will leave her for other women. Same outcome, but vastly different experiences for both of you. How you think you can live with a woman who is full of anxiety, bitterness and spiteful and NOT affect you is beyond me. >You do NOT open up to women. That's cuck behavior.If you are a very doubtful and unstable person, then yes, it's best to keep it to yourself and work on yourself. But otherwise, why would it be a cuck behavior to open up? Unless you feel insecure, of course. This is a big problem which you will have to face at some point, but don't let me stop you from fucking up yourself. This mentality is the typical Andrew Tate misunderstanding, which even he said at some point:>Everyone acts like fucking Tate when they don't have his personality, talent and money and are surprised why they are alone. Your woman doesn't want to come home after 9hrs of work to watch your pathetic ass sit on the couch with a cigar and tell her to shut up.
>>34524343If she feels like you put more effort and have more fun with your friends she will dump your ass anytime now, plus her clock is ticking if you don't put a baby in her soon she will leave to.
>>34524676>She knows and understands this when you are manSaarpost. Fuck off shit eater you will never be with a woman.
