I fucked up tonight boyoooos. I was about to have sex nd she brought me to her dorm. We did lots of hot foreplay but I was too anxious and desensitized to get hard. I ended up leaving without having sex. The same thing happened to me a few years ago when I lost my virginity, and I have not recovered since then. Idek how to fix this. I’m trying noporn and nofap. I have a sex drive but when it’s time to do the deed, I just can’t. When I start getting an erection, my foreskin opens up a bit and i feel discomfort/pain. That contributes to it too. I’m thinking about avoiding pursuing women...I kind of don’t want to though because I still have a sex drive. All those years of adolescent inceldom-induced porn/fapping has ruined me. I just keep worrying that this will repeat the next time because this usually happens when I get physical with a girl. This girl still wants me to go to her dorm again. Can I fix this?
>>34524428Do you have Phimosis?
>>34524428It's actually one of the most common problems with first time sex experiences. Don't worry about it. The worst thing people do in this situation is overblowing it since the psychological factor is the only wall here. If you take it seriously and make a big problem out of it then it will be hard to fix this. But if you just learn from it and try to have fun you will get hard in no time. It's because of the anxiety. Your dick is very much sensitive to your subconscious. So once some relaxation, fun and courage enters the subconscious, then the problem will be resolved.Just making sure you are not an autist who will fixate on this. So for clarity. BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. ACCEPT IT. You will embarass yourself and it's fine. The faster you move on from it, the faster you can actually have normal sex.Also, that foreskin thing seems to be phimosis, again very common. It will not bother you when you have sex. And it will get better the more sex you have
>>34524428There ARE ways to make the encounter pleasurable and happy for her without an erection. There is no reason why YOUR failure should be HERS
>>34524534>>34524540>phimosisI dont know desu. My glans is also just very sensitive and it does not feel good when it is even a bit exposed. It rubs against my underwear and pubes>>34524540Thank u for the consolation. However, even when Im out on a date in public and the girl places or rubs her ass against my crotch, it still feels somewhat difficult for my dick to feel pleasure from that.
>>34524428>When I start getting an erection, my foreskin opens up a bit and i feel discomfort/painsounds like you have an extreame case of phimosis / something similar. you should go to a doctor, you can be pescribed cream for that
>>34524428Get a girlfriend and i'm sure you eventually will be comfortable enough with her where you can do it
>>34524428OP you will get better advice from a doctor than you will from 4chan
>>34524428>Can I fix this?Sounds like you're gay.
>>34524428>When I start getting an erection, my foreskin opens up a bit and i feel discomfort/pain.This isn't normal. It is probably phimosis, a medical condition. Go see a doctor. You might be one of the one in a million cases where circumcision is actually medically justified.Also, if you can't get an erection for a girl, you have to eat her out. It's the only way to save face.
>>34526153Circumcision is never medically justified. I had my phimosis fixed with plastic surgery. Kill yourself you fucking barbarian. I bet you believe magic is real. People in vulnerable states of mind asking for advice are not an invitation for you to solicit your bronze age blood rituals. You're literally only doing this to get brownie points with your fake god. Disgusting.
>>34525787I dont really want a gf.
>>34524428Are you able to retract your foreskin to fully expose the glan, the pink part? I never even knew that it is supposed to be easily pulled back until I was 16 or so. I then read about foreskin stretches and using oil to try to expose more of the glan bit by bit. It hurt like hell at first, kind of like when your skin under a fingernail when you clip too much, but now I just have a normal penis without any sensitivity
