I told my bf I think I might be a guy on the inside. He said he didn't care as long as I stay a girl on the outside. I figured that meant he'd be okay meeting me in the middle about it and treating me like a guy, at least at home.He keeps telling me to bury the delusion and just be chill about stuff. I told him I just want to be one of the guys, I want to do guy stuff without people treating it weird or special.I started packing up everything feminine I owned to donate, and I told him I wanted to start using he/him pronouns. He called my brother, who drove all the way over unannounced and started unpacking everything I had packed and kept calling me a retard. My brother asked me if I wanted our mom and dad to find out about all this "weird shit". I knew they wouldn't take it well, so I said no and I folded on the argument.I want to give it another try, but I'm trying to picture how to better approach it where my parents won't be used as ammunition against me.
>>34524683You're also a guy on the outside fag
>>34524683Your bf has made it pretty clear he's going to use your family to pressure you against this. I doubt that dynamic is going to change
>>34524683What is with women seeing what dumb shit they can get away with?
>>34524683If a real guy ended up in the body of a cute girl, he would dress really hot and feminine and let his best friend hit.
fuck this guy- u only have one life and will spend that being a girl on the outside?? fuck your family too. fuck u, even- respect yourself a little damn. being who u are is hard and hurtful, but so is everything else in life-- do you not want to find a SO that loves u, bro? live a good life?
Show us your boobs.
Its okay if you want to dress or act more masculine but believing that you are actually a man is a delusion. Being a man is alot more than just thinking you are one and doing perfomative stuff like drinking beer/getting mad at football. You can never fully change who you biologically are, getting any operation or being on hormones will just make you a miserable half step away from being both a woman and a man. Being a man isnt that much better either IMO, you've been treated as a woman your whole life so you wouldnt understand the social isolation and sheer apathy that is the norm for a majority of men. I personally have lacked any intimacy or human touch for several years and I cannot complain about it to anybody without being called a faggot pussy.
You will only bring down everyone around you with this bullshitLiteral mental illness
Hey retard, if you go down this path you will be an ugly, effeminate, short “man” and your life will be miserable. Stop letting this shit delude you. You are not a man. You will never be one.Just be a pretty girl like you are. Jesus. Realize the gift.It’s like watching someone wanting to burn piles of money cuz da computer told me to :p
>>34524683You will never be one of the guys just give it up now you're mentally ill
>>34524683 > want to do guy stuff without people treating it weird or special.Whats wrong with just being a tomboy.You have a bf anyways on top, so most guys will just accept you if you act the part eventually. Stop sperging about xitter memes like pronouns or immediately getting rid of "everythingfeminine". You can just be a woman who heavily leans into her male side without doing the whole troon bit. Which is what your bf probably meant when he told you to be chill about it. You don't have to do all that performative internet shit to live as yourself.
>>34524683You're not going to have a boyfriend for very long.
>>34524683You can tell you're a woman because if you were actually a man you would be dropped like a rock by anyone you're dating at the first sign of this gay shit.
>>34524683Do you have autoandrophilia?
>>34524725>>34524893It's hard. Like I know how bad it is, but I still care about him. I want to hope we have a future together, that we can get through this and come out of the other side of it closer to each other, but I feel theres some truth that he won't change and that if he does, he won't change enough to accept me as who I want to be. It's like ripping a band aid off in a way, I know it needs to happen, breaking up, but I'm dreading how much it will hurt.>>34525227Money is the root of all evil. I don't have a problem with money being burnt, I just don't have enough of it to start much of a fire.>>34525526I don't know what that is.
>>34524683You're being a retard. Women can't be "men on the inside".
>>34524883This. Any guy who ended up in the body of a cute girl would spend all day jacking off in the mirror and experimenting with kinky sex. He wouldn't want to look like some weird Elliot Rodgers half-male incel.FTM trannies never get this part right.
>>34524683>I told him I just want to be one of the guysguys dont use pronouns>>34526058>I want to hope we have a future together, that we can get through this and come out of the other side of it closer to each other, but I feel theres some truth that he won't change and that if he does, he won't change enough to accept me as who I want to behe dated you as a woman and now youre trooning out like a retard. of course he's not going to accept you like that and no one will. what even spurred this whim?
>>34526135How can you be sure that's what you or any guy would do in my situation if you've never been in my position?>>34526158>guys dont use pronounsEveryone does, or they wouldn't be able to refer to someone in the second or third person. That's basic grammar.>>34526158It's not a whim, it's who I am on the inside.
Be yourself and if he can't love you for who you naturally are then he is not the one
>>34526582op is quite literally naturally a girl you niggerfaggot
>>34524683Stop being weird.
>>34524683>would you love me if I were still a man>you only love me because I have a vaginavery original shittest
>>34526582Thank you, I'll start moving forward with things I've been putting off.>>34526752Maybe it wouldn't seem so weird if everybody was willing to be themselves instead of who others want them to be.
>>34526586You only care about the body and not who the person is>>34527051You are welcome. Never filter who you are. The person who loves you will love all of you
>>34524683This is a delusion. You are a woman. You have NO IDEA what it is like to be a man. Do not entertain this absurd proposition.
>>34527051>My beautiful baby daughter, the sole light to my life, the only reason I keep going. I will cherish you and support you in any way I can. I love you.18 years later:ACCCKKKK!!!
>>34524683>Wants to be treated like a guy>Gets called delusional when being delusional >This is a problem Listen OP you are a woman, you always will be a woman and nothing can and will change that. This doesn't mean that you should wear a sundress and bake pies, you can be somewhat masculine, but you will never be a guy, even if you could most guys don't have great lives, just look up Nora Vincent on YouTube.
>>34524683you have to find the right people that accept this, clearly it wasn't this board or your BF
>>34527398What is especially cursed is how she thinks anyone is fooled by the plastic ab inserts. She has no idea of the effort men put into working out, she just wants to be a "hot guy" but has no idea how. Does she really think anyone will run their hands over those fake plastic lumps and admire them when I bet you she can't even do a single crunch?
>>34526571>How can you be sure that's what you or any guy would do in my situation if you've never been in my position?Because I'm a man and you're not so I know how men think. You want to be like me, you claim you have "a man's personality". What makes you think you know what I would do?
