How do I cope with not having a harem? I see chads with 4-5 girls (sometimes more) dotinh on them...meanwhile, I've never even been on a date.
>I see chads with 4-5 girls (sometimes more) dotinh on them...No you don't. You certainly do not see them being part of his harem.
>>34524695What is the final solution to the Chad problem?
>>34524695Be Indian guy in Europe or North America (exotic).
Chad walks into a restaurant with 3 Japanese girls, he collars them and tugs their leashes while he drinks - they gaze at him in true submission.The homely girl you met at church?She'll ditch you just to orbit chad's harem.These girls would rather cry themselves to sleep, wanting to be his number one, than accept a hug from you.
>>34524852This is the kind of fantasies that incels wank to. He self-inserts as one of the girls.
>>34524724>Be Indian guy in Europe or North America (exotic).I hope you're joking, otherwise, seek a therapist, because you're delusional.
>>34524903>This is the kind of fantasies that incels wank to. He self-inserts as one of the girls.
>>34524695Dude you need to stop watching anime.
>>34524695>How do I cope with not having a harem? I see chads with 4-5 girls (sometimes more) dotinh on them...meanwhile, I've never even been on a date.It's only natural, that's what I tell myself, and move on. There's nothing that can be done to change nature.
>>34524913>Dude you need to stop watching anime.What he is saying isn't from anime. I don't watch anime and even I know that, some men have more options than others. You would know if you studied history, many times in history only 10% of men would pass on their genes, that's why monogamous marriage was created. Women would rather be one of the many women a Chad has access to than settle down with an oofy doofie. The thing is, marriages are done now. It's a failed institution, women will only settle down in their 30s, and the only option these guys have now is to accept that they fucked through their 20s, and marry a roastie in her 30s. That is, if they want to have a family.
>>34524920Bro he uses the word harem. It's an entire genre of anime. Shit is ruining his brain. He clearly cannot handle watching these cartoons.Not to say you're wrong though. Society is fucked. Problem is this dude is coming to 4chan asking for advice using anime terminology. He's cooked. Done. He is not the 0.1% of dudes who will have his anime harem. He needs to separate himself from fantasy before he can accept reality.
>>34524925The word harem is not anime terminology. Read this and educate yourself.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harem
>>34524929I know that but dude the only people who use that word are anime faggots.No alpha giga chad says he has a harem.It's specifically a genre in anime and he's on an anime website ffs
>>34524947>No alpha giga chad says he has a harem.No "alpha giga chad" says "alpha giga chad" as well, lol
>>34524947>It's specifically a genre in anime and he's on an anime website ffsI'm not this guy >>34524929I'm this guy >>34524920I don't really watch anime, as I said, and I know the word, and I use the word. It's a historical term that anyone who has studied history would eventually encounter. I suppose anime reflects this archetype for a reason, because symbols and words do not emerge from nothing, they exist to represent patterns rooted in reality.
>>34524695Have you ever asked a girl out? Have you ever actually spoken to a real live girl?
>>34524949I never said I was? The fuck?>>34524953I don't watch anime (at least not anymore but before it was a little bit). I know the word. I'm using the word because OP did.This whole convo is devolving into semantics nonsense.OP, stop watching anime and get in touch with reality. You'll never have your anime harem. You'll probably not even touch a girl until your 30s when the other women are ready to """settle down""". Best thing to do is to start cutting off your connection to nonsense that is feeding this delusion that this is something that is obtainable by anyone other than the most alpha of chads.
>>34524969>I never said I was? The fuck?OP never said he was as well, the fuck?
>>34524969>This whole convo is devolving into semantics nonsense.True.>OP, stop watching anime and get in touch with reality. You'll never have your anime harem. You'll probably not even touch a girl until your 30s when the other women are ready to """settle down""". Best thing to do is to start cutting off your connection to nonsense that is feeding this delusion that this is something that is obtainable by anyone other than the most alpha of chads.I disagree though. OP never mentioned he watched animes, but even if he does, why would he stop? The problem is not animes, the problem is reality, that's the whole point of the thread.
>>34524695>I see chads with 4-5 girls (sometimes more) dotinh on them>switch off tiktok>no you no longer see themOoopsBack in school, you'd always see those guy. All of them were just gay and basically "one of the girls". The girls doted on them because they were sexually harmless and nice to try out makeup with and whatnot.
>>34524695The guys I know that get various sources are pussy are either tricking or they're just straight up buying prostitutes. The alpha Chad you're describing does not exist in the way you think and if he does? It's usually because he's in a small town where shit like that would be obvious because it's localized. These guys may gets lots of female attention but I assure you that he's probably only really fucking one girl for free, the others he's directly paying for gifts or some other type of sugar daddy type lifestyle.
Idk why people are accusing OP of being some basement dwelling anime watcher. I know he is using "incel" lingo but he is just code switching for 4chan and hopefully not speaking like this IRL. If you go outside you can definitely see ladies men/players in school, clubs, social events, etc. Generally when you see women surrounding men it's because of one of the following:>Guy is attractive (duh). But it can also be charisma/being funny. But anyone saying looks don't play a role is retarded because unless you are super charismatic or super good looking (or some combination of the two) you will not be getting that level of attention.>Guy is already vetted/off the market, women feel safe around him.>Guy is generally likeable so women AND men like him.>Guy has social standing like playing in a band, being a DJ, or some other shit.>Other stuff I forgot about.But look, even if you do not have a rotating harem of women, you can become a better version of yourself and get a date. Check out /sig/ on /fit/ and maybe /htgwg/ on /adv/. Good luck.
>>34524907What I said was not bait, and it's definitely not schizo.Just go on Youtube (or any other social media) and type in "Indian Man + xyz Woman". Indian Men pull so many different types of women.Do you really see (for example) Somalian Man + Polish Woman? Or Japanese Man + Chilean Woman? Scottish Man + Saudi Woman?No. Indian Men get their own... plus everyone else (Female, of course). Bollywood >>> Hollywood/KPop. Indian Science, Pharmaceuticals, and Tech surpasses North America/Europe.Also, Indians practically outnumber everyone on social media by 7 to 1 (no censorship firewall), so women have so much to choose from.Also, yes, stop watching Anime. This is REAL LIFE.
>>34525944put some effort into your bait. You're just shitting up the thread.
>>34525851Or you're literally just me who is out with a bro, his gf and a few friends of hers. Bro goes to take a piss, I am left chatting with the girls. Now I am your "Harem guy" because some dudes are so spergy they think that a man chatting to some women means they all suck his dick.>even if you do not have a rotating harem of women,Its piss easy anyways. Just ask some chick out and fuck her, then keep going with the next one while keeping her around as some kind of FWB deal. Some women are not going to be down for that, but plenty will be.
>>34524712I have seen that recently. They were all teens. Even Asian.These are the foids that hard working gooks will marry at 35. Ran through cum dumps for white bois
>>34525851What do you think of the denmo situation?
>>34525944Top kek
>>34524695I had a dream this morning where I sort of had a harem and then at the end I picked one chick and the other ones disappeared and I had sex with her. Anyways, if you want a harem 100% guarantee the only thing you have to do the only requirement is you need to make a shitload of money.
>>34524695>I've never even been on a date.unlike you, he spends time to improve his life and learn how to talk to women. This is very nuanced, many aspects of your life need to coincide: physical fitness, finances, socializing/networking, self-teaching. The only thing you see is the end-result of their hardwork. Like a sperg, you complain and whine you don't have that.>How do I cope with not having a haremby working to get your own. What did you want me to do? Cheer you up? Shut up faggot
>>34525999I mean yeah, this too. Falls under point 3 (generally likeable). Honestly I don't think OP really wants a harem of women he just wants to feel wanted and not left out. Maybe some hookups can boost his self esteem but what he really wants is to not come off as a sperg/creep/loser/etc. and instead to just be charismatic/generally likeable. I think women are just his current focal point.
>>34526781>I have seen that recently.No you haven't. Unless you live in some faraway lawless third world hellhole.
>>34524852>Chad walks into a restaurant with 3 Japanese girls>JapaneseI love how these incel fantasies are always very "seething Asian"-coded. Really makes you think huh?
>>34527424Either seething (half) Asian male or some guy with yellow fever.
>>34527394What the fuck are you talking about?Yes some guys have multiple girlfriends. You can see it in public.
>>34527947Where do you see this in public?
>>34527982He has a parasocial relationship with looksmaxxer streamers.
>>34527982The street, buses, shopsThe fucking public, you autist
>>34527982NTA but I've had multiple friends with multiple girlfriends.
>>34528348>>34528364
>>34528384I didn't take pictures anon. That would be weird
>>34528395Okay I guess we'll take your word that polygamy is so common you'll often see it on buses and on the street.Jk no I won't. You're gay.
>>34528531Not him but I've seen several people IRL who have multiple women. I do also have a pic of a guy I know cuddling 5 different women on a couch, but I'm not going to dox them. The fact that this is impossible to you reveals that you need to touch grass.
>>34528531I don't care what you do. I'm sharing my experience.
>>34528348>The fucking public, you autistI don't think you're in any position to be calling anyone an autist anon.
>>34528667Why not?
>>34528548>its my heckin le truthDisregarded.
>>34528730What are you babbling about
>>34528384I had quite a bit of chad friends growing up I actually used to be a chad lite before I become a loser NEET in adult life.
>>34528544>The fact that this is impossible to you????Why do low IQ people only think as either 0 or 1. It's always one extreme or the other?I never said impossible. That's ridiculous. However, people are saying polygamy is so common that you can go to the bus, store, and on the street and see a dude with his arms around 4 women. It's talked about like it's a common occurrence (which it isn't). It's being implied to OP that this is so common that anyone can do it, including OP. That's a lie. It's rare. Very rare. It's not 0 though. No one in this entire thread said it was impossible. People said he needed to be real and divorce himself from fantasy.However, the advice given is telling him that it's a realistic obtainable goal because of its frequency (which is low but you all are lying to him and saying it's so common you'll see it at the store). It would be like telling someone to play scratch off tickets to become a millionaire. It's ridiculous non-advice which spits in the face of reality. So much so that it's okay to be real and say "it won't happen" like how a doctor says, "you'll never walk again." The chances are so low that it isn't even a viable option so it's laughable to even discuss it as one and the better option is to instead help OP face reality and come to terms with the hand he is dealt. After all, he didn't even ask how to get a harem. He asked how to cope with not having one. Why people are telling him "just work on it" like >>34526889 is just silly. So, let's recap for your low IQ monkey (likely brown) brain:It isn't impossible. It's so unlikely that it isn't worth entertaining the idea and instead the focus of the discussion should be what OP asked which is "how can I cope" not "how can I get."
>>34528786I didn't say it was common you fucking idiot.
>>34528800And where in my comment did I specifically say (you) were saying these things? The only time I'm addressing (you) directly is when I'm calling (you) an idiot (which you are).Seriously. Learn to fucking read. Your reading comprehension is absolutely fucked. lmfao
>>34528818Who else are you talking about?
>>34528822This will be your first exercise on improving your reading comprehension skills. I'd like for you to read the thread and figure that out on your own.
>>34528786>it doesnt happen to me>and I dont see it>it means its almost impossible guys!go touch grass. Seriously. I dont think you understand how common this is now. If you did some research about dating app statistics for Chads or what caused the term "dating roster" to even exist, you might begin to understand. Just because it seems impossible to you, doesnt mean other people haven't done it (couldnt be me, faggot).>Why people are telling him "just work on it"the only way to cope about feeling bad for not being able to get a harem is actively work on getting one. What did you want me to say? Poor OP is a little bitch and cant get a harem? Cope by relentlessly masturbating at home? Go fuck yourself pussy
>>34524695I can't imagine trying to keep up with more than 2 girls. Let alone 4-5.
>>34529516>impossibleThere's that word I never used again. Why even bother explaining this shit again? I already addressed all that in the comment you're replying to. Read and comprehend. Fuck. Public school zoomer retard.>the only way to cope about feeling bad for not being able to get a harem is actively work on getting one. What did you want me to say? Poor OP is a little bitch and cant get a harem? Cope by relentlessly masturbating at home? Go fuck yourself pussyRetard. Have him face reality that he needs to aim for more realistic goals for relationships than try to be the top 0.01% of dudes who can have 5 women at once. This is the equivalent of the 35 year old obese roastie being told if she just acts like a 10/10 she'll pull Tom Cruise or whatever the fuck foids go for these days. The first step is acknowledgement and acceptance of reality. Seriously why do you even give advice? Why do you think your opinion is worth anything. Low IQ retard idiot over here.
>>34529824>Have him face reality>the top 0.01% of dudes who can have 5 women at once>The first step is acknowledgement and acceptance of realityget a load of this Boomer trying to give advice as a retarded loser. Absolutely pathetic. Real incel shit. Yeah, why even try anyway OP? Just give up like this faggot says KEK
>>34529618There's nothing to keep up with
>>34529824You're taking this way too seriouslyAnd there are no goals. You get what you get or you cheat.
