>Be me>not successful with women>have these 2 cute friends, only see me as a guy friend.>had somehow a brief fwb situation with a hot chick im gonna meet also this whole summer>tell my friends about her, she is way hotter than them.>I ask them out and suddently we talk about sex>they make me very specific questions about how i fuck girls>exaggerate things a bit>they become two completely different people, more whory like.>i flirt with one of them everytime we meet at the station on the bus i take to work.>mfw is the trick with women, larping and faking it till you make it?
>>34526163It's pre-selection.Some other woman wants you, so now you have value.
>>34526163You just showed them that you are in fact, not gay. And probably said some stuff that shows you may be a good fuck. As they are already comfortable around you and know you're not a psycho , that makes them interested.There is two main concerns that women have regarding sex:1. Is he a psycho/rapist/Beta sperg who thinks they ar emarried after fucking once2. Does he not suck in bedYou'd be amazed how many guys fuck up those two points. Simply by being friends you already pass 1.point by definition. >>34526186And also that. You don't need some other woman around to have value, but it does make one more interesting.
>>34526163Women are more competitive than men when it comes to social and relational status. If a woman can steal another woman's man, it means she's better than the other. If she can bag the same guy as one more hot than her, then she's as good or better than the hotter one. A lot of it is subconscious, but that's what I think is going on with them, at least a lot of them. They'll do the same thing in different ways too, like it's shown that a female hairdresser will give bad advice to a woman who they think is prettier than themselves. Anything to give themselves a competitive edge, even theoretically or intangibly. I think it has a lot to do with insecurity and the need for validation, which is very common for women. Bagging a guy who other, hotter women can get is a form of social proof, and validates them in that they can. It has less to do with you and more to do with how you're perceived, which can change for reasons as simple as getting another girl. So in a way, yes, faking confidence can get you more play, because you're deliberately manipulating their perception of you. It's very shallow, though, and won't hold up longterm, so it may get you laid, but it probably won't keep their interest as they inevitably discover the real you. Good for hookups, bad for relationships.
>>34526163>is the trick with women, larping and faking it till you make it?Yes. It's all about confidence. Nothing else matters as much as that.
Ok, this girl i'm flirting with does have a boyfriend. How do i take the next step. I liked her for a long time and now that i got more close with her i want to make her attracted to me. What should i tell and joke about to interest her.
>>34527721Stop concerning yourself about her bf. In fact ignore his existence and never speak of him nor listen to her speak of him.If she's flirting with you it means she is available.Caution however. If she ditches him for you there will be expectations of a relationship and you do not want to be in a relationship with a woman that bounces, she'll bounce on you too.
>>34527735mhhhh interesting, a relationship with her wouldn't work she thinks its normal to have male friends wich it isnt for me. At least the girls i've been with didnt have male friends, that made it easier to understand they were into me.
>>34527721You will get your ass beat and you'll deserve it
>>34528392i'm a good boxer so i doubt that man
>>34526163They saw that you were capable and willing of having sex with another woman and they're offended you didn't try harder to woo them even if they don't actually want you.
>>34526163A similar principle applies to jobs too. Say you're currently employed and make good money to get the well paid job.
