There's this girl who is into me and I into her, she's been through some shit, so we're taking it slow, we haven't really been with each other yet, but I have been with some chicks casually but I can't seem to enjoy sex and making out that much, it's whatever, but I still desperately long for romance, and every time I look at her my heart starts racing, I really enjoy my time with her. Idk what to do, idk what I want, it's all so confusing, I'm not even young, I'm 28yo.
>>34527684If things start becoming more serious between you two, you’ll need to be honest with her about this. A complete lack of libido can become a major incompatibility if the other person expects a regular intimate relationship. It’s not really something you can compromise on long term. Talk to her openly, she may feel the same way and have little or no interest in intimacy herself. But if she doesn’t, it may be kinder to let each other go rather than stay in a relationship where both of you end up hurt or frustrated.
>>34527755That's a good thing to talk about and consider yeah.She's low libido herself, she showed sexual interest in me and I have sexual interest in her but the times I've had weren't that great, and I did just to get it done, so I'm not even sure how I feel like.
>>34527684You should plap that ass
>>34527684Don't get me wrong, sex is extremely important in a relationship.That said, your partner should be just that. A partner. Someone who you can lean on and someone you would let lean on you. When you have a bad day, you want them to comfort you and vice versa. A vast majority of your life problems cannot be fucked away. They need a companion. A helper. Someone to give you a pound of flesh when needed.Basically what you're feeling is good. It isn't lust. Its that "I feel this person will make my life better" feeling and that is extremely good and rare.Any girl in skinny jeans can make you lust. Not every girl can make you have THAT feeling.So keep it going. Keep it natural. Don't force anything. Intimacy will come when it needs to. But at face value this sounds like a green flag.
