How do I not blow my brains out after being unable to get a hard on and lose my virginity with the girl of my dreams? I made her cum a bunch in other ways but I could see the look of disappointment my limp dick gave her. And she sure tried to wake him up. And was very nice about it after. But I feel a shame that could last a lifetime. And I worry she’ll never be attracted to me again. It was the first good thing that ever happened to me and now it feels like god playing a cruel joke.
stop making the same threads again and again
>>34527717That’s how it is like at first. You get more chances, usually.
>>34527720Don’t know what to tell you buddy, this is my life I’m talking about>>34527733She’s been very sweet about it but idk I feel like I fucked up my one chance of finally being normal. If I do I might take a heart attack boner pill just to be sure
Sex is awkward the first time, the same thing happened to me. Dont masturbate for a week or 2 prior to having sex. If that isnt your problem than go to your doctor, for now just get a honey pack from your local Arab gas station. Now quit whining about killing yourself you fucking ingrate, this shit happens to most people.
>>34527791Sad thing is I was gonna get a honey pack before we met but didn’t have the time
>>34527770Pretty sure you get a mulligan. Relax.
>>34527791Also what I find most frustrating is it wasn’t awkward at all. We were all over each other. She was so fucking wet. She must have came on my face at least 3 or 4 times. And I could barely manage a wiggle down there. And she sure tried to get it going because she’s an angel. Grinding, sucking on it. Nothing worked. The most it chubbed was when we kissed.But hearing a girl tell you she wants to feel your dick and then be unable to give it to her is the most bitter experience of my lifeSince I started really falling for this girl I haven’t been sleeping or eating much so maybe it’s related to that
>>34527820>Since I started really falling for this girl I haven’t been sleeping or eating much so maybe it’s related to thatMost likely. Get some sleep, eat some mollusks, garlic, and vegetables, and do some cardio. Hip thrusts and kegel exercises are supposed to be good for ur loins. Its also very likely you have performance anxiety, it will get better as you get used to intimacy. Just take it slow and do a lot of foreplay. She sounds like she likes you a lot so dont insert your feelings of inadequacy on her. Usually after having sex a woman worries much more about keeping her partner and the dynamic shifts more in your favor. I'd wish you luck but you already seem lucky to me, sex irl is awkward and nothing like porn.
>>34527845Thank you for talking through this with me man cause it has been eating me up all morning. We did foreplay for a while honestly. Lots of making out. My sheets had huge stains from me eating her out and fingering her. She sat on my face and came too. If I could have just gotten hard it would have been the perfect experience.
>>34527717First-time impotence is so common as to be almost thr rule rather than the exception. Second-time failure is very very rare.
>>34527717Find another girl of your dreams and do a better job next time.
go to your closest indian smoke shop and get a honey pack lil bromake sure its malaysian
I’ve been kinda spiraling all day over this. Like I wasted the first good thing that’s ever happened to me. I feel like the worst shame in my entire life.
>>34527717Atleast you made it that far.I rejected the girl of my dreams because I am an insecure idiot, then only a few days later, she gave her virginity away to some chubby mid-tier normie a few grades above us.It has been almost eight years and I still feel as if I have severed the thread of prophecy, or ruined my fate or whatever.My advice to you, anon, is keep moving forward and do not chicken out.
>>34527717Just take Cialis and have another go.
>>34527717blow that shit smoove off
>>34528231Hey man just wanted to say this reply made me feel a lot better. Plus I ate good today and have been chubbed up all day thinking about her riding my face and locking her legs around my head when I was fingering and sucking her clit. She has such a pretty pussy too. It was my first time eating a girl out but apparently I’m a natural cause she came a ton and left a huge puddle stain on my sheets. I’ve heard of the stereotype of dudes not giving back but if you’re a man and you don’t love eating pussy there’s something wrong with you or you’re gay. That shit is awesome. Unless you’re fucking some nasty roastie I guess but this girls pussy is literally pristine. Fuck I need her to come here right now.
