Recently got a 4chan/r9k bf and we've been dating for a while(irl)On one of the days we were suppose to meet, i found their alt user in the archives and discovered they were still adding girls and attempting to 2 days before getting physical with me, along with attempts of adding people from the past(reasonable enough). After reading it, my heart dropped to my stomach and immediately felt sick. I'm very insecure, anxious, and have a fear of being cheated on. I wonder whats the point if its so easy to move on this many times and people are so replaceable. We weren't together at the time so he did nothing wrong, but i immediately panicked blocked and dumped him which may have been a overreaction. This is my first relationship and I wanted things to work out, the idea of trying the same things with different people absolutely disgusts me. Sameday, he is attempting to add girls again after browsing soc, meaning he wasn't twotiming but moved on pretty quick. He made me happy, was a good bf and person outside of this, I overreacted, and i want my first relationship to be my only relationship, based on this should I still reach out and ask for forgiveness? On the otherhand, i'm starting to think im too much of an idealistic sensitive faggot for this kind of stuff in general inb4: fuck off foid with your relationship drama, actual advice is appreciated
if you're real and not a troll larping a pathetic caricature of a female, my advice is to get professional help for your severe mental illness
>>34530955He's cheating on you, or at least actively looking to cheat. And he's going to continue to do so if you stay.You have to leave. It's going to feel hard, but go full no contact and busy yourself with other things and stop thinking about him. He's a piece of shit.There *are* good and loyal people in the world.
As a guy who has done the same with my girlfriend current and she found out aswell, infact a worse case scenario than urs.. ive accepted my mistakes however and working on them ever since she found out.. theres been total transparency so far like basically complete access to my accounts n stuff so yea that for sure helps.. otherwise honestly leaving would be the better option if you can and dont wanna work on it or at least not take chances again
>>34530955Perhaps, just perhaps, your mistake was seeking out a partner here.Should probably go outside a bit for some perspective init
>>34530955I think you did the right thing in dumping him. I would strongly recommend not meeting future bfs on fucking /soc/ or /r9k/
>>34531029>There *are* good and loyal people in the world.Where? I have yet to meet one in my 30+ years of existence.
>>34530955Do not beg him for forgiveness. Don’t lower yourself like that. Especially when all you did was get your feelings hurt. Trust me if you do that the most you’ll be to him is a hole to fuck when convenient for him.
