my mom's crazy Cristian, im an atheist and she hates that and constantly wants to convert me. I tell her all the time that religion is only cope and now she actually wants to kick me out the house. Although I am 18 I finish school only next year and have no savings/job to go look for another living space. She seems serious about it too
Moms can be crazy but they care deep down inside.
>I tell her all the time that religion is only cope and now she actually wants to kick me out the houseYeah because that sounds incredibly obnoxious to deal with. Kicking you out is a bit extreme, but imagine your own stupid kid smugly telling you over and over again your beliefs are cope? Just stop beng such an edgy reddit-browsing teenager. You don't even have to believe in God, just be less obnoxious about it and she probably won't kick you out.
>>34531000Being an atheist doesn't mean you have to disrespect her faith, and by the same token her faith doesn't entitle her to disrespect your lack thereof.I suppose all you can do is remind her that while you're happy she derives fulfilment from her faith, that you are not and never will be receptive to it.Little point getting into specifics or a tit-for-tat about the merit of either.You're about as likely to change her mind as she is yours. All you can do is try to reach a position of mutually respectful disagreement, which normally adjusted people should be able to do.
>>34531000Maybe engage with her about Christianity. She has the high ground and you are forced to keep a good relationship with her if you want resources from her. Next time she wants to convert you, just ask a few fundamental questions about it. Maybe you will see an error in your worldview or she will see on in hers. But at least you don't come off as an smug redditor. "religion being cope" is btw no argument against religion. The same could be said about atheism. That atheism is just a cope for morally corrupted people, because they fear being punished. And not finding any argument for theism convincing doesn't make you an atheist. Atheism itself is a position that needs proof, just like theism. I am myself no Christian, but I sometimes still go to the church with my mother, because it makes her happy. Maybe try something similar.
>>34531251>Atheism itself is a position that needs proof, just like theism>Your contention that the sky isn't made of balloons and candy floss is a position that needs proof, just like mine that it is
>>34531264>Your contention that the sky isn't made of balloons and candy floss is a position that needs proof, just like mine that it isYeah, that needs proof too. The proof would be to just look up. That would be a pragmatic from of proof though. Just because the proof is easy to achieve, doesn't mean that it is no proof. But Atheism and Theism: Both are claims about reality. And claims need proof. Just because you have no proof of theism, doesn't mean that you have proof of atheism. The absence of proof isn't the proof of absence. Why do you think agnostics exist? Atheism isn't the natural position. It is an active position. If I ask you if there is a dildo in my ass right now and I don't show you any proof, you wouldn't take the active position, which claims that there isn't because I haven't shown you any proof. You would probably say "I don't know. I would have to investigate".
>>34531332Fuck me that's a lot of wordsAt a certain point in one's philosophical musings, it's prudent to ask oneself>Are the curtains really just blue
>>34531000Tell her you believe and then do what you want
>>34531000You should probably actually read a few books and drop the conceit. If religion was just "cope" it wouldn't have survived to the modern day. You didn't invent skepticism. Ancient man was just as capable of asking questions and doubting as you are, meaning religions must have an underlying reasoning behind them that you simply aren't privy to. Start with someone like Aristotle and move your way up to Plotinus before looking into what the early Christian saints taught, if you want to actually be knowledgeable on this subject and not just some braindead reddit atheist whose opinions come from cartoons and social media posts.
>>34531620>Ancient man was just as capable of asking questions and doubting as you areI would contend that he wasn't, on the basis he would be killed or exiled for heresy. Only since the world wars has it been acceptable to oppose the church in the West.> if you want to actually be knowledgeable on this subject and not just some braindead reddit atheist whose opinions come from cartoons and social media posts.If you want to actually reach people, steer away from the ad hominems. It makes neutral readers assume you have an agenda beyond spreading the word of God.
>>34531631>I would contend that he wasn't, on the basis he would be killed or exiled for heresyThat didn't really happen. That's something you saw in a cartoon. Heretics were excommunicated at worst, not exiled or killed. But more importantly, you've entirely skipped over the part where the religion became established in the first place. It would not have been possible for one random person to invent a tall tale and get other people to believe it without evidence, to the point of starting organized religion. Meaning there must have been a convincing argument from the outset.>steer away from the ad hominemsThat's not what an ad-hominem is. An ad-hominem must be a premise meant to support a conclusion in order to be a fallacy in the first place. At worst, what I said was an unflattering yet truthful description. In no way is one person obligated to flatter another, especially when that flattery would run contrary to the truth. OP is in fact an unknowledgeable person who got his opinions from social media and popular culture. If that sounds insulting to him, then he should do something to change that fact and actually begin reading books.
>>34531660Exceedingly boring talk tbqhwy. I have not enjoyed it one bit.I would take another (You) though. Expand.
>>34531676>retard gets btfo>immediately pretends not to understand to make discourse impossiblekek. the meme is true.
>>34531682Ah, I'm a retard *and* I'm stupid. Fascinating.Anything else?
Work with your mom on a plan for your life.If I had a disrespectful shitlord kid I'd tell them to stop being a shit and start the process of cutting them off and getting them self sufficient.>>34531047Says it well.Try to find a common ground. A lot of Christian bible stuff has a lot of decent advice that people without good upbringings or life structure can benefit from.A lot of their logic and reasons can be insufferable, but the basis on being good people to eachother is luckily mostly universal. Bond over that stuff.
>>34531000If you have not found god, you have not looked hard enough.