What's the best move if you need to break up with your gf but she lives in the apartment you rented by yourself? She has nowhere else to go. Won't go back to her parents, plus she's broke and unemployed.I could go back to my parent's house and let her stay here until she finds a different place, but she might wreck the place when she leaves to get back at me, which I would have to deal with alone since it's not even her apartment.>inb4 whyBecause she's ruining my life. Dragging me down the swamp with her. Burning through my savings because she can't keep up a job and making me do 90% of the chores.Plus she browses social media 24/7. It's all she does. And she doesn't want kids. It doesn't make sense for me to stay with her any longer because she would be a shitty wife who won't give me kids.But I do care for her, which is why I don't want to just evict her. For the sake of what the relationship was at the start, and our friendship before that too. I don't want her to be homeless because I kicked her out.
>>34531043It's unironically not your problem. You have no responsibility to this person.>Won't go back to her parentsShe will change her mind when faced with homelessness.That you care for her only shows how effective of a manipulator she is.Get it out on the fucking curb.
>>34531054I don't know man. I wouldn't have a problem with kicking her out if she wasn't so dysfunctional. Sometimes, I have to convince her to eat. I don't want her homelessness on my conscience.And it's more that she can't go back, not that she won't.
>>34531066You've already expressed legitimate concern that she would seek repercussions if you were to exercise your right not to have someone in your home that you don't want to be there.That you feel this could be the case, in conjunction with your apparent belief that it's not her own responsbility to look after herself, tells me this woman has you wrapped around her finger.To be absolutely clear, she is responsible to house, feed and clothe herself. Whether outside of a relationship or in one, you have absolutely no moral obligation to ensure any of the above.You had a girlfriend, not a child. Simply lose the conscience.
>>34531076Actually, you are right.This should have ended long ago
dragging it out only makes it worse
>>34531043I've been in a similar scenario as you. I think you going back to your parents is a good solution, just grab stuff you don't want destroyed before you go. And, yes, obviously the other anons are right that it isn't your responsibility, but I really do get it, OP, you still care about her
>>34531043My brother kinda dealt with the same thing. He moved out back with our parents and just ditched her in the apartment. She was able to stay there for a few weeks before rent was up then it was her problem where she was gonna stay. If she didn't wanna be broken up with and really had no other options, then she shouldn't have been a cunt with her only lifeline. Look out for yourself anon. Don't bother caring about people who dont care about you. Remember that.
>>34531043Just take her to her parents house.
