should i get rid of all my friends because i feel like they hate me and aren't meeting my emotional needs. they constantly organise shit without me and leave me out and never listen to me when im sad even though i would always listen to people when they are sad. on the other hand though i think i am being histrionic and schizo and it may not be that bad, but it does feel that bad and i want to go back to hikikomoding since i didnt have all that stress then
>>34531071You shouldn't purposefully abandon your friends, but it sounds like they aren't very good friends, desu. Try making new friends instead and then prioritize time with the new people
>>34531071>I think i am being histrionic and schizo and it may not be that badA circular problem. You *are* probably being histrionic and schizo about it, which turns a problem in your head into a real one where you act in a histrionic and schizoaffective fashion, thereby making your delusions real.Most of the people I know with BPD go through this cycle with friend groups once every couple of years.
>>34531358theyre all having fun and they dont care that im nottheyre not emotionally available for mewhats the point of having friends if you dont get to talk about the deep shit, and not the weatherthey left me out and theyre happy about it>>34531377im male so i dont think i have BPD, plus i have the schizoid phenotype, v diff to BPD
>>34531986You aren't owed people's friendship.If they don't enjoy being around you, they will choose not to be around you.It's very unpleasant to be on the receiving end of, but if you've been through school you must have seen this dynamic play out from within the in-group, where someone else is ejected seemingly naturally and by consensusIf so, did you think they deserved it? If they did not, why didn't you stop it?
>>34531986So, yeah, start making new friends with people who actually like spending time with you. Until you do so, no reason to dump your current friends, cause social interaction is good
