im only attracted to women that reciprocate my effort. usually when i put in effort, the girl is extremely passive. im the one initiating convos all the time. it makes me feel like theyre not interested. they only show that theyre interested AFTER i start ignoring them. i think the pandemic really cooked gen Z womens brains.there are some women that show blatant interest but its usually because theres something unlikeable about them. like being a single mom, social media-brained, too fat, no hobbies besides alcohol, or uneducated.i wonder why it cant be normal women acting like this? im just frustrated that i keep seeing this behavior. women complain about unlikable dudes hitting on them all the time but the opposite is also true.
>>34531451In an ideal world your mindset would be the right one, but we're animals after all and so a certain amount of subconscious psychology is at play.It has been my experience that women that I've shown strong, open desire for have initially reciprocated then gone cold in fairly short order.I have found, for better or worse, that a certain amount of distance at the early stages of a relationship tends to translate to increased desire on her part.It is an unflappable aspect of human psychology that we tend to apportion greater value to things which are difficult to attain, and apportion lesser value to things which are easy to.It is best to act accordingly.I wouldn't go as far as the blackpillers in saying that any kind of affection from men is kryptonite to women, but there's a kernel of truth in there for sure.I suppose it's probably because women don't want to be the source of a man's pride or self-worth, and are selecting as such.
