How do you stay disciplined as adult living alone?Since I finished my degree and started living alone my discipline dropped dramatically.I wasn't really disciplined to begin with, I usually only did as much as I needed to, but still had good grades so it kinda worked out.But now that I dont need to study or have any other obligations, I hit a new low.I order pizza 3-4 times a week cuz cooking sucks and I crave that cheesy food.I'm so lazy, that I only wear black clothes, cuz I can throw them all into the washing machine at once.I do the absolute minimum at work, dont put any effort into learning the stuff need to do my job and people think I'm retarded but idc.Since I work from home I barely leave my house and became somewhat socially inept.I dont want to be that way, but doing a 180 from one day to another is not realistic.
>>34531515>I only wear black clothes, cuz I can throw them all into the washing machine at onceSo you do care about something. That's effort towards at least one thing. I just wash my blacks with every other color i have, except whites. I've always done it that way.
You'll get a wakeup call one day that will make you change your ways. Or maybe not and you'll die of a heart attack at 40 without ever having a gf. Either way the only person that can change your behavior is yourself.
>>34531515>but doing a 180 from one day to another is not realisticonly if you're a low agency faggot
friends or a community to keep you accountable.a work place or someone to feel judged by will also help.
some1 else to keep u accountable, can be community or friends, or stranger/random people u c that can judge u.
>>34531618>>34531627Thats part of the problem, ever since my mom died no one actually cares about how I'm doing.My so called friends do not care either.I'm kinda alone in life, its okay for me right now, but I see how having a gf or family would be reason enough to keep your shit together.
You don'tIf you had people love you in life you'd be on top of this shit
>>34531537That's not an effort, that's just misunderstood way of washing colored clothes>>34532555Correct>>34531627Correct, but not beneficial if it doesn't lead to anything like sex, fun or opportunities. It's just fear- I had piles of trash next to my bed when I lived in government housing and didn't care because nobody would check. I have to be semi-clean with a landlord now.
>>34531634Unless it leads to anything or risks losing something, yo won't bother- it's natural state of man like Marx said.Why do you think most incels are unkept and live with their parents- why would they pay taxes for females, minorities and Chad's children while they are owed nothing by foids and government, unless it's a forced conscription in another war?
Be a friend to yourself, what advice would you give to a friend who was acting this way?
>>34531515Start small with baby steps, for example cleaning, one day clean just one room, the next day another room, do this for a week but the next week clean more rooms, until you find the cleaning patter that works for you, I clean bathroom and kitchen every day and one day I do a deep clean if the house.Food next, cooking doesn't need to be difficult, there are a ton of dishes that you can just place on the stove and occasionally mix them, they take a lot more time to prepare but you can do other things while they cook. Start small for example you can make oatmeal, or you could make boiled buckwheat both are just boiling for some time, a bit plane but easy and you can flavor them with spices. You can try making pasta you just need to time the sauce with the boiling pasta. Another tip is that you can make more food and warm it up later. While I can't really help you with clothes, I do have an advice that might help you, start to walk around the place you live one day you can walk one route and the next day change it a bit, some physical activity will take your mind off the negative things and seeing new things might motivate you to better yourself.
>>34531515I believe that the majority of people live like this Anon. Especially if WFH. Unfortunately being an adult in many cases is a case of just going through the motions while trying to survive in moderate comfort.What >>34531573 says is kind of true, but it really depends on your lifestyle and what you want from life. If you keep ontop of house work, I don't think your situation is that unusual for a single guy WFH (which is the problem being WFH, its too isolating). If you want to change, I suggest working out why you want to change and whay your goals are. "Being more disciplined" only works if you have a goal to be disciplined about, so what is the goal?
