I'll start by saying that I have no social problems or anything else like that. When I'm with my friends, whether they are male or female, I have no hard time while talking. I'm even considered a fun guy to talk to by many of them.The problem arises when I have the chance to talk to a girl I like when no one else is around. I have absolutely no idea on how to keep the conversation going. And it's not that we are strangers to each other, it happens even if we're friends already,Of course I can't ask her random questions to find a topic, it would feel too akward. Has anyone here more experience with this?
>>34531536You should ask her random questions to find a topic that interests her
your goal when talking to women is to find out who she is as a person. thats how you can tell if youre meant to be with each other or not. think about the kind of questions you want to be asked that would make people get to know what kind of person you are right away. the reason why youre having this block is because youre afraid or being judged or she wont like you
>>34531536Find out her interests. Learn what you have in common. Ask her what her favorite color is or somewhere she wants to travel.The more infatuated you are the harder it is btw. I’m totally in love right now and our first date I was just a pile of spaghetti. She had to literally start wiping at her lips for me to catch the hint she wanted me to kiss her. Just go with the flow, be engaged and interested in her, and look for her signals. And remember silence isn’t always a bad thing either. Being comfortable in silence around someone is a good thing imo.
>>34531672Women very rarely show the true side of themselves in talking, I know this from dating many women, you can probably get surface level info from chatting up a chick but I assure you, no woman who works at a bookstore is gonna tell you she raves and gets gang banged every weekend because that's her true self. Yeah that's an extreme example, but its just how ppl operate. Still though you shouldn't let that stop you from wanting to talk to her, im just saying that you're not gonna get anything deep unless you talk to her that much or you're fucking her.
>>34531804I’ve found the best time to ask deep questions is pillow talk after sex
