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I lost my virginity recently and feel like I get stares and flirty comments from more women than i ever have in my life. At work I keep noticing two cute coworkers stare at me. And a cute girl at the convenience store asked for my name. I’ve never experienced this in my life.
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>>34531801
You're just being retarded now and perceiving everything as sexual interest. Just yesterday, I was in an elevator on my way to work, and this young blonde girl walked in, asked if I can please hit the number 4 for her, and then said she hopes I have a good day when I exit. Is this interest? No it's someone who is just being nice. Same goes with eye contact. Someone making eye contact with you doesn't mean they want sex from you. I make eye contact with men, old ladies, and even kids --- that doesn't mean I am sexually into them
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>>34531839
That’s fair. I guess I’m just seeing things differently because the girl I’m talking to now told me she’s been giving me signals for a while now and I just never noticed
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>>34531839
You should have asked for her instagram
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>>34531839
I reckon it's a little from column A and B.
A confident person both exudes and internalises that confidence.
The only time a woman has ever approached me has been when I was in a committed relationship and did not view her in a sexual light. I suspect the two are correlated.
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>>34531801
They can smell the pussy on you.
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>>34531801
If you're acting more confident, this will get you noticed.
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Women want men that other women have preselected
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>>34531801
Without realizing it, you were broadcasting "ignore me" vibes and have stopped.

And, without realizing it, you were blinding yourself to women's interest in you because you assumed it was impossible, and are now noticing what may have been going on all along.



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