How do I not fuck up with dating apps? For example I've got a match with a girl. She's into film making, she's got plenty on her profile. I'm trying to ask good questions, but I'm literally getting 1 message a day. I know really I just need to accept this girl isn't going to work out, but I mean what do I do. Roll the dice and push for a meet? Play it slow and just see where we go?
>>34532529One message a day means she's not interested. Foids are glued to their phones 24/7, even at their "work". If you're not chatting for hours, and videocalling within few days, it's over. P.S. "Film making" is not a real thing, just a filler phrase like "learning languages". Nobody outside college does that.
dating apps are trash, you'll meet more single women in a cooking class or going on hikes.
>>34532540She's in college still so that's where I believe the film making is real. But yeah if she's not interested that's fine, but why match in the first place, why still give me that one a day response and not just unmatch?
>>34532529You already blew it by getting into a text conversation. You should *start* by asking her for her number. If she won't give it to you, unmatch; if she does, call her and talk to her.
>>34532547You know that feeling of validation you get from girls messaging you? They get it too. Also try to avoid asking too many questions - don't only try on her.
>>34532529>1 message a dayShe's only got a vague interest in you.Don't waste your time, meet asap, and probably move on.
>>34532529You push for a meet. And you do it earlier than you did this time. The goal of texting is to set up a face-to-face interaction
>>34532529Never let them lead you on. I ask/suggest a meeting on the 1st, 2nd, or MAX 3rd batch of messages. This is how I control my own destiny. I don't allow THEM to monetize MY time and MY stress levels and mental well being for some INVISIBLE TIMER which I CANNOT TELL WHEN IT ENDS. Never, dude. If a girls ready to date, if a girls ready to date ME, if a girl is INTERESTED IN ME, she will say yes. And it doesn't matter if it's the first, second, or third message. She will say yes because she's RIPE and ready. And THAT'S how I'll get a gf.The only risk I'm running is seeming a bit intense to some, but you know what? fair! they can go waste some other niggas time, not mine. And by that logic, abundance, Providence, suckling off the teat of sweet honey suckle mountain dew-dew lilly, I shall get a girl, by golly she will come into my arms and just start riding my face until I look like a hummingbird that just sucked a whole bunch of nectar and dipped it's whole face into the front ass of a flower. Let's fucking go dude. You got this you fucking nigger
>>34532529>1 message a day.If you're not talking about going on a date then you are getting your time wasted. I don't have patience for that crap anymore. Once I got a one night stand from being persistent like that but that was ages ago pre pandemic. Foids have gotten way worse since then because now you're dealing with all the women since the existence of dating apps who managed to stay single, the absolute bottom of the barrel.
