How much boob should I show to attract guys but not come off as a slut?
>>34532650Show all of it, men love a good slut, it's just not acceptable to say it out loud.
>>34532650you could show none and just ask the guy out, men don't really pursue women anymore in 2026.
>>34532651I am looking for marriage and want to attract a guy who also wants LTR.>>34532654I am too shy to ask guys out. Not good at keeping convos going either, so I prefer extroverted guys
>>34532650It’s context specific. You don’t show it off too much when you’re out and about doing your thing. You do show it off when you’re on a dinner date and do the shit test of leaning forward and dropping them on the table to see if you can get him to look.
>>34532681>You do show it off when you’re on a dinner date and do the shit test of leaning forward and dropping them on the table to see if you can get him to look.Is this some new incel meme?
>>34532660>I am too shy to ask guys out. Not good at keeping convos going either, so I prefer extroverted guysSo good news (if this isn't a LARP). Guys get so little attention and interest, you can stammer and soerg your way into asking a guy out and literally say "I'm terrible at conversation" and they will be delighted that someone showed interest in them and even your shy and introverted guys will half ass an effort to fill the gap.
>>34532690Dude I’m old and been around the block before I got married. Every chick with a big rack I would take on a dinner date I would deliberately never glance at their chest. The result? They lean forward to ask me something and drop those sweater puppies on the table to try to get me to budge and look down. Fuck off if you think that’s not a test.
>>34532681>>34532707What's the winning move? Looking or not looking?
>>34532707Giving you benefit of the doubt, what exactly do you think is being tested? Like, do you believe women think he's some sort of a gentleman if he doesn't look? That he "passed" the test? I'm genuinely curious.>>34532698If a guy doesn't care enough about you to initiate the convo, that means he isn't serious about you. I would want someone who is actually excited to see me, to the point where they spring into action.
>>34532650>How much boob should I show to attract guys but not come off as a slut?Attract which kind of guys? The more tit you show the more attention you'll get from the ones who just want to bang you. The less you show, the less attention you'll get in general.If you're looking for a relationship minded guy, that pic is too much.My recommendation is to cover most of your cleavage and use your figure; hips and ass to attract guys.
>>34532719In my experience, flash the quickest of looks but not on their first try. They’ll do it more than once if they’re actually interested. First time is to check if you’re a horn dog who can’t control themselves. Second or third time is to see if you are a heterosexual male that is also interested in them. I try to tell guys all the time that what you say doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think it does. Words words words. Nah dude. Control your posture, your gaze, the subtle expressions that render on your face that you aren’t aware of but they are.
>>34532660>I am too shy to ask guys outwhy are women like this? just fucking ask them out if you want a decent guy. you want marriage but you dont even have the backbone to chase after a partner. marriage is not letting the guy do all the work, it is a PARTNERSHIP.
>>34532727>what exactly do you think is being tested?The test is “is this guy only interested in me because I have tits? or is he interested in me?”You want a guy that is interested in you for you but you also want him to appreciate the fact you got nice tits.
fully covered but no bra ever. that's patrician tier. better if it tents off your nipples and that's what gives it shape
Show all booba and get the attention you can't live without.
>>34532742Women want men who are resilient and in control of their emotions. Brushing off rejection gracefully is a skill. If you obsess over an interaction or overthink it you are unstable, and therefore dangerous to them. Note: being dangerous in a general sense is attractive but you have to be not dangerous to them as individuals. When people say “put yourself out there” as a guy, it means shoot your shot, take your L if it happens, and don’t get worked up about it.
>>34532650Booba....
>>34532650Please tell me you have a penis.
>>34532813>see tits>immediately think of penisPlease lay off the chinese sex cartoons
>tfw no titcow gf to share a lazy sunday afternoon cuddling with
>>34532660is that u in OP? i will marry u.
>>34532650None. The only additional attention you will get by showing more will be from men who are primarily interested in the physical, and you will start actively turning off others who want more.
>>34532650Doesn’t matter, as long as you go outside enough someone will eventually claim you.
>>34532727>If a guy doesn't care enough about you to initiate the convo, that means he isn't serious about you. Incorrect! Most men have been beaten into submission that they don't believe they can't approach any women to initiate conversation because it's harassing behavior and habe fear of losing their job, etc.A woman showing the slightest bit of interest is the biggest neon sign that even the most dense or reserved man will understand.If they truly market interested it'll go nowhere. Otherwise it's highly likely they thought you were attractive but didn't pursue due to lack of interest, but lack of belief that they could safely do so.
>>34532784>Women want men who are resilient and in control of their emotionsAnd men dont want the same? Why arent women held to the same standard? Many children raised by single moms turn into criminals and serial killers than the other way around. Male gay couples have way less divorce rates than female gay couples. A lot of women get a pass for being useless in relationships. Would you be able to survive a relationship where women would rather be passive aggressive than communicate their feelings? where they cant tell random men to fuck off because theyre already taken? not every woman is marriage material
>>34532978A man should not be so risk-averse to the point where he is afraid of interactions with women. Imagine wanting your sons to be shy risk-avoidant incels --- they will get no where in life with those beta genes.
>>34532727>If a guy doesn't care enough about you to initiate the convo, that means he isn't serious about you.This is only true AFTER you start dating. Plenty of men simply won't approach if a woman doesn't appear interested, because they see no point and don't want to bother her. Unless you're interacting with them regularly, the idea that they'd suddenly fall for you as a person so much that they'd 'need' to shoot their shot is unrealistic.>>34532987It's not fear, it's simply risk-benefit. I go outside for a limited set of things, which I either need or enjoy. Becoming persona non grata in any of those places is not something I'd risk on a woman who has given zero indication she even knows I exist, let alone is interested in a date.You don't need to, and probably shouldn't, ask men out, especially if we're just talking about random dudes. But relying on men cold approaching you isn't going to select for confident men. It's going to select for men with low inhibitions, which isn't the same thing.
>>34532690No. Have you really never dated an actual biological woman?
>>34532719>look too muchpervert>look too littlegay
>>34533041Risk-benefit would be maximum upside benefit and no risk (she ignores you or says no). Do you know how much your ancestors would kill to be in a position where this is their biggest worry?
Thought there’d be more boobs itt.
>>34532650doesnt matterur a slut no matter whatthats my best advice
>>34533074The risk is getting banned from the place because she decides it's "creepy".>inb4 so don't be creepyDoesn't always work that way. All it takes is her finding you unattractive and feeling uncomfortable. Appealing to authority is way less risky to her than directly rejecting a guy. Relatively rare? Sure. But that's still not something I'd care to test out on a blind gamble in one of the few places I'd actually want to be. If she shows a bare amount of interest and I'm interested in her, I'll take a shot, but otherwise I'm keeping to myself.> Do you know how much your ancestors would kill to be in a position where this is their biggest worry?And I would kill to be in a society that wasn't as suicidally insane as ours, but that's what we're stuck with.
>>34532650something like >>34532733 is great... there's enough cleavage to be noticeable but not slutty and when you see a guy you are interested in you can push your tits up a bit to enhance the view. If he notices that you went from mild cleavage to a bit more risky for him he may take the hint that you are interested in him or if he's oblivious will just see that you are packing a nice rack and up his interest in you.we can be plenty retarded in these things though so keep that in mind if he doesnt seem to react much to it.
>>34533240It's still slutty, and if you'd do>when you see a guy you are interested in you can push your tits up a bit you might as well just show it all up front. Yeah, show a guy you're a whore to express interest. What a great idea.
>>34533074>no risk (she ignores you or says no). Kek. Woman brain in action.
>>34532650No limit. Leave them flapping in the breeze
>>34532650I think the picrel is the perfect amount honestly. The most you can possibly show without coming off as completely classless and trashy. Don't show any more than that. And make sure to wear a nice bra because if you combine cleavage with nipples showing then guys will definitely think you're a slut.
>>34532650You will make me horny, after that, how do you expect me to act with you.
>>34532660You need to stop being a coward, just ask a guy out, we arent like girls.
>>34532707What happens if you look.
>>34532650What would you think if I stare at them?
>>34533261>Cleavage is still sluttySometimes it's literally just heat management.>>34532650>How much boob should I show to attract guys but not come off as a slut?It depends on how practical it is. Unless you're out at a club or at casual hot place, you want to be attractive but practical. Larger breasts take very little effort to draw attention. It's best to *indicate* your bust rather than advertise. >>34532978>>34532698>Guys get so little attention and interest, you can stammer and soerg your way into asking a guy out and literally say "I'm terrible at conversation" and they will be delighted that someone showed interest in them and even your shy and introverted guys will half ass an effort to fill the gap.Unfortunately, this isn't true. I've seen and had girls initiate in public. I assume, usually correctly, that confident ones are selling something. Shy awkward ones are either so skittish it's like trying to encourage a cat to come out of hiding and things get weird or they shoot their shot at a clueless normie who makes some wrong assumptions. The guys who are appreciative of the tiniest bit of attention are usually too surprised to act on it. >>34532727>If a guy doesn't care enough about you to initiate the convo, that means he isn't serious about you.Of course he's not serious about you. He hasn't even met you. How serious do you expect him to be?Everyone brings their own bullshit expectations into social interactions.But yes, he should initiate. Cowardly zoomer boys feel entitled to guaranteed rewards for minimal effort instead.It's an issue.>I would want someone who is actually excited to see me, to the point where they spring into action.This is fair, tempered with realism. He should care enough to initiate. But the trade off is that the girl has to signal that she's receptive to being talked to. Literally just smiling before glancing away when making eye contact that could be mistaken for accidental. Open body language helps too.
>>34533041>Plenty of men simply won't approach if a woman doesn't appear interested, because they see no point and don't want to bother her.100%I've bothered enough women that I learned to sort of ping them. If they looked through me or ducked out, I moved on.>the idea that they'd suddenly fall for you as a person so much that they'd 'need' to shoot their shot is unrealistic.It happens but usually with alcohol or something someone perfectly matching type.>>34533041>Becoming persona non grata>>34533186>The risk is getting banned from the place>Appealing to authorityThis literally doesn't happen to men who have bothered to learn social. Autistic guys who insist logic should trump how a stranger might "feel" are the the ones who get in trouble. If they follow a woman who rejected them for several city blocks because they happen to be going the same way, they deserve to be arrested.>>34532742>why are women like this?Because rejection is awful, they don't need to develop a tolerance for it, and they don't feel secure in the relationship with a man too scared to act on his own interest. Often they're insecure enough to assume that cowardice is disinterest.>>34532739>I try to tell guys all the time that what you say doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think it does. Words words words. Nah dude. Control your posture, your gaze, the subtle expressions that render on your face that you aren’t aware of but they are.This hamstrung me for *years*. I mistakenly believed that since I was horny as fuck, that concealing my lust was just polite. I broadcasted "little brother" vibes constantly and had no clue. Just thinking about how sexy I thought they were while saying the same things I always did changed a lot.
>>34532650What would you do if someone groped your breasts?
No bra showing and no aerola otherwise go nuts
>>34534581I'd say bra can show as long as it looks intentional and goes well with the rest of the outfit.
>>34534517This, bitch unless you're dressed like Sunday mass then seeing tits in general will make me turned on regardless of how you wish to be seen. I can probably see just the top cut of your cleavage and that'll be enough.
>>34532650unironically 0 in day to day lifenice rack btw
>>34532650Why do you even care? Most women are sluts or dip into slutty things, I highly doubt the guy looking at your tits trying to fuck you is gonna give a fuck in the moment about what a whore you are. I'm not saying you're a whore but if you're gonna use your tits then you may as well go hard, at that point its on YOU to filter the proper men for you.
>>34532650Men aren't attracted to you troon.
Just keep them covered and show off your feet. This is how girls do it here in Arizona
>>34532650Take a cue from ancient Minoan fashion and Boobamaxxx to the fullest. Set a new fashion trend and become known as the coolest woman of this century. >>34532660>I am too shy to ask guys out. Not good at keeping convos going either, so I prefer extroverted guysWow you are so not like the other girls, thats totally unusual.Why do you think guys are extroverted with women? Its the simple basic acceptance that nothing will ever happen if you rely on the woman not being a total pussy.
>>34532650>ow much boob should I show to attract guys but not come off as a slut?None. Cover yourself, whore.
>>34532650Women who need to show off their bodies to get attention have no personality.
>>34532650If you're attractive you'll attract dudes, cleavage or not. Tits out like in that pic are if you're a power-hungry chick looking to manipulate simps.
