I am only interested in women for the purposes of procreation. I realized this some time ago after dreaming that a doctor had told me that I was infertile. I remember initially feeling quite distressed, followed by the most intense sense of relief that I have ever felt. Like a massive weight temporarily lifted off of my shoulders from a dream. I did some thinking after this and realized that if that scenario were actually real, I would never go on another date again, never get married, and would do so quite happily. Additionally if I ever found out a girl I was infertile or had some kind of inheritable genetic disease, I would break up with her without hesitation. How do I cope with this? I want to have children, without a doubt. I cannot die peacefully without having children (unless it wasn't through any fault of my own, like infertility). It is the one objective metric for success in this life and I cannot die without reaching it. That being said, I know whatever woman I end up marrying will want a husband that genuinely loves her for her, and I don't know if I can provide that. Not to mention I am just not that motivated to go on dates as I honestly don't care to get to know or spend time with any woman. Advice?
>>34533442I think this is the worst motivation to have children.
>>34533449Perhaps the motivation is bad, but I am already able to provide financially and would be willing to do so. I also genuinely want to be a father, just not so much a husband if that makes sense
>>34533469The kid's going to see that and will never see what a healthy relationship looks like. They will grow up and have relationship problems. So you are less likely to have grandchildren, which you'll probably crave. You'll be posting "I need grandchildren or I can't die peacefully."
>>34533442You're not alone. I otherwise have no interest in women --- I legit told my family at 14 that I have no interest in dating or relationships but would only be interested in having children. You can go the surrogate route or you can just have a bunch of bastard children and disappear. I thought of doing the later in a foreign country with my identity not being revealed so they can never track me down
Le im so deep and edgy, im literally homelander bro
>>34533476You're right. I hadn't really considered the grandchildren thing. I have considered essentially LARPing as a caring husband so that my wife can be satisfied and so that my children might be able to see what a healthy relationship looks like. I am not sure how long I could keep that facade going for though, or how well it would work in the first place. >>34533502Unfortunately I also do want to raise healthy, successful children, and I also believe children need a mother to develop properly, so this is not really an option for me.
>>34533476You think op's dad cares?
>>34533442Get a woman knocked up, then leave her. What's the problem?
