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Any tips on losing my virginity before Christmas without paying? I’m sick of being a khhv
Facially sub5, but I’m pretty lean and dress well, not having much luck on the apps
Does cold approaching even work for uncs in 2026?
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>>34533567
Hookers
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>cold approach
Prepare for pepper spray and lawsuits.
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>>34533567
>Does cold approaching even work for uncs in 2026?
yes just don't approach like 18-24 year olds.....when other people are around
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no, cold approaches won't work for a 37 year old man that has never held a woman's hand
have you tried normie hobbies where there's women like the gym, dancing or cooking classes, pottery?
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>>34533567
>Does cold approaching even work for uncs in 2026?
It has hardly ever worked for anyone, ever. For a virgin of your age, hookers are, and from now on always will be, your only option.
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>>34533567
Just be honest, not in a weird way. Be confident “yeah, I’m a virgin because I was really anxious before, but I’ve really been working on myself and I feel ready for it” some shit like that. People (women) love “transparency” and feeling like they get a side of you no one else does
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>>34533567
Meet people.
Meet female people
Get to know female people
Find a female person you like
Ask her out
Share good times with her
Get romantic
Get sexual
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>>34533567
In your age group, teenage-style dating doesn't really go on. FAR more likely is the friendship-to-romance route. That means that you very probably already know the woman you will lose your virginity with - as friend, neighbor, workmate, etc. Look around you for a woman you feel comfortable with and develop that relationship
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What prevents you from just seeing a hooker?
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>>34534128
What kinda cuck are you, not OP but i have pretty good success cold approaching
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>>34533567
> Facially sub5
> Any tips on losing my virginity before Christmas without paying?
Nope.
>Does cold approaching even work
No.
Your best option is a "glow up". Getting fit, getting wealthy, or displaying wealth, and being sociable.
I ... don't really believe you are capable of any of these things, because if you could, you would have already. It's just not who you are.
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>>34536212
Is OP destined to be a virgin forever?
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>>34534148
This only applies when you say you cry over dead puppies on the side of the highway, not if you tell a woman you plan to have sex with within the next hour that you're a 37 year old virgin loser asking for advice on 4chan
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>>34536180
>What kinda cuck are you, not OP but i have pretty good success cold approaching
Yes, and as a result you're not a virgin at 37, are you? Neither am I. But there is a point at which a man has to accept that he is becoming less attractive as he gets older, not more. If you're a virgin at 23, it's still far too early to give up; but if you're a virgin at 37, it is simply never going to happen for you, and refusing to accept that doesn't help the situation. OP has never been attractive enough for cold-approaching to be a viable option, and he's never going to be now. It's hookers or nothing.
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>>34533567
Prostitution/sexpat is your only realistic option
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>>34537168
>>34537095
I promised myself I’d lose it the non paid way but I’m starting to think this is the final way out
I am stubborn and thought I’d lose it naturally long before now but it just seems I don’t click with women like that
Jfl



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