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How to deal with Incel Tendencies?

I am an Incel (being honest) and I hate girls of my age, it's not that I never approached a girl I tried my best to get a girlfriend and I have approached over 5 girls till now but every single one of them rejected me

I am actually Ugly and short ( 5'7 ) and I guess that is why girls don't like me

My Incel tendencies are getting extreme every day, you know the one with violence, I have even started hating my own sister and I can't help it , I know I am wrong and I know this might end bad for me but I still keep hating and for some reason my hate level spikes every time I see a girl sitting or even talking to her boyfriend

What should I do and please don't say go to therapy or some shit, therapy only makes you more miserable
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>>34534146
Take a vacation, talk with tourists and foreigners about their daily lives and hardships. Go to a hooker and fuck her.

Never go to therapy again. Just keep piling up good memories from now on. Never stress out again, if you're stressing out, difuse it as soon as possible. You don't need to put any energy on getting stressed out.
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>>34534152
That is a nice suggestion but I really don't have any friend to go on a vacation with and I really don't want to give my virginity to a hooker
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>>34534160
So you want to continue being an incel.
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>>34534160
You didn't make friends and you value male virginity.
Youve got bigger problems than inceldom.
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>>34534219
male virginity is valuable. its a special gift you only get to share once
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>>34534146
>I am actually Ugly and short ( 5'7 ) and I guess that is why girls don't like me
No, they don't like you because you hate women and it shows.
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two words: hair. pill.
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>>34535215
There's no fucking way they can know this. But it's also true they will date the most disgusting pig ever, God knows why.
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Being an incel is a choice.
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>>34535531
>There's no fucking way they can know this.
Women are much more intuitive than you realise. They can certainly sense hostility. Your tone of voice, gestures, posture, micro-expressions - all kinds of signals will be practically screaming how you feel. They can't *not* know it.
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>>34535549
You can mask it tho, and get really good at it. Will they still see through that?
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>>34534146
Picrel was literally me all through school.

Except it wasn’t even that she slept with anyone, it was as simple as a girl coming onto me too strong, my mind would suddenly say “slut” and I’d be turned off.

Complete loss of interest for what I thought was an angel.
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>>34534146
same here, bro
I also don't go out because the women in my city are fucking disgusting. Roastie whores covered in tattoos and piercings.
I go to Queensland, Australia, from time to time, and the women there are gorgeous. Still a lotta tatts, but at least the women are attractive.
I'm almost thirty and still a virgin.
I'm not ugly, but I definitely have things I would change about my appearance, and I'm 5'11"
I'm also quite fit and active, and enjoy surfing, going out, skateboarding, and doing fun shit,
I just don't socialise with girls at all, really
Only have one real friend, and he's either away a lot or out of the country or just busy, so we don't hang out that much. He also doesn't like nightlife, clubbing, and isn't really active like I am, so we usually play online games or watch movies and TV series.
I think I mainly just need to change cities or even countries.
Move somewhere where things are less bleak and shit, and actually start socialising and networking more.
thinking of also going back to uni to get a better degree, and hopefully meet people that way.
Ultimately, if you're not willing to take actions to change your situation, or in other words, if you're willing to put up with your situation, then, whether you like it or not, that is the life you have chosen.
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>>34534146
All that life energy anon, and you're transmuting it into hate and distributing it outside your person. Become nonchalant to the whims of the foid. Use that energy for better things anon, like hobbies, career. If a foid comes great, if she doesn't ah well who cares
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>>34534146
Incel just means you are hideous
Do not bring your jew media language here, faggot slave



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