I've been in a long distance relationship for a while now, she lives 4 hours away from me. It works, because I don't have a full time job so I can see her 4 days per week. We recently started talking about the future, living together and getting children, I will work full time when we do. The problem is, she lives in a poorer region where wages are significantly lower than where I am from, she works full time and makes as much as me with my part time job. I suggested we move somewhere close to where I live, but she said she thinks she can't do it, because all her friends and mom live here and she has a very close social circle, and that it's her home and she'll miss it too much, even though first she said she would do it to start a family, so she is extremely doubtful.Now I don't really want to lose her, because she would be a perfect mother to my future children and we both really want children soon, and she fills a lot of criteria that all women in my area don't. I'm not sure what to do, whether or not I should move to her or put pressure on her to move to me. I don't really have any friends or a big social circle myself, but lots of family, who would probably disapprove of my decision to move towards a poor region. I just want to earn enough to support my future family, and it would be smarter to do that when living there where I do now. I told her this already, and she said it would indeed be smarter, but at the same time very hard to leave behind her friends, family and home, and she teared up, saying she also doesn't want me to be unhappy.What would be the best thing to do here? I would really appreciate some advice.
>>34534206Try to get a location-independent job.
