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Situations with strangers not people I know.

How do I take rejections gracefully, what faces or actions should I be doing.

Also how do anticipate a potential rejection and stop before she has to say it.

When should I continue and what signs do I look for.

A customer girl smile at me on the store but I didn't make a move sinse I presume she was being nice. Also before that I had a beautiful cashier at another store smile at me with gusto, she seem genuine not forced. So are girls finding me hot or am I hallucinating.
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You got the wrong mindset about it.
Your view is that your are central to this interaction and being rejected is somehow an affront by others.
But again, you are not thinking about it the right way. You should think of trying to find someone who has genuine interest towards you and actively tries to spend time with you. Anything else is just you trying to force it.
If a girl doesn't want to be with you, then that's it, don't waste your time on it.
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Rejection is more traumatic than rape. It destroys your self-esteem and confidence completely. Only a psychopath would say "get over it".



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