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Why do I get my feelings hurt so easily even though I'm a guy?
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1. You're a sweetheart puddin pop
2. You have negative self talk, which is part of why people's criticism or bullying hurts so bad
3. You rely on others for reassurance, which is the other reason people's criticism or bullying hurts so bad
If you fix 2 and 3, then 1 can fully occupy your heart and personality and you can be the effortlessly charismatic kind chad you're supposed to be
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>>34535733
Because you're a pussy. Anything else we can help you with?
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>>34535776
Why am I such a pussy?
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>>34535788
Thanks for not acknowledging my much better advice fag
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>>34535788
>Why am I such a pussy?
Bad genes, probably. Why does it matter?
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>>34535871
Why did I get bad genes when everyone else in my family is fine?
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>>34535881
Genetic recombination and mutation most likely.
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>>34535887
Is genetic reconstruction evolution in production?
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>>34535788
Because you haven't mastered your own mind yet. Anyone can grow a thicker skin, it just takes introspection and practice. If a man can go to the gallows with inner peace, which has happened many times throughout history, you can learn how to overcome cruel words.
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>>34535881
>Why did I get bad genes when everyone else in my family is fine?
Recessive genes coming together.
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>>34535927
So I'm literally Solid Snake?
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>>34535970
Pretty sure Liquid was the one with recessive genes
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>>34535989
Nah, last minute plot twist revealed that Solid was the one with the recessive genes
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>responding to stick figure incel in 2026
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>>34536670
How should we celebrate when I hit 1000?
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>>34535989
no he wasn't
that's just what Big Boss told him growing up. the post-credit scene has Ocelot telling Solidus that "yes, the inferior one ended up winning after all"
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>>34535762
How can I fix 2 and 3. You described me to a T
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>still talking to itself
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>>34536670
holy autism
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>>34537104
Honestly just force yourself to say nice (or at the very least, neutral) things about yourself in your head when you'd normally be self loathing. Be forgiving to yourself for your mistakes. When your mind is less clogged up with misery, you'll have a better idea of what you want in life, then start working toward that stuff, when you accomplish things that matter to you and that you're proud of it fixes #3. Good luck!
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>>34535733
do you become more anxious about your feelings if you feel that someone is watching to see how you will react?
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anyone know where you can get "recipies" on crack cocaine, i have the powdered version, but id like to try a little diffrent
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>>34537621
Yes
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>>34535762
This anons post is right on point. If you had a high opinion of yourself then nothing anyone else says will put a dent in you. But make sure you understand the difference between insults and constructive criticism. You don't want to cry like a bitch because your boss tells you you're doing something wrong.



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