>be me>old, short, insecure khhv>begin to find attraction to female coworkers who are very friendly to me>want to take it further with a few who seem somewhat interested in mebut...>i have no style outside of work, no hobbies>fluoride stare>i have no social media so i dont even know whats the latest trending topic or meme to bring up>literally a robotHas anyone ever been like this before and made a 180? It's pretty depressing and lately I've been thinking about blowing my shit smooth off
Ya'know I found a conclusion in this datelessness. Sometimes it is better to take blackpill and accept the upset you have to put in others for being mentally ill from it. Some of us in life have to be in pain from not having love. And we just have to say it is what it is and move on. And OP, we can't ever truly know when those moments where the girl is gonna sideglance us and approach us. I think if anything we need a girlfriend who would obsessively cuddle with us and get near us and we could never get her off; that is the dream girlfriend we need. However, despite it all, we gotta accept it is hopeless... Until a miracle happens with the obsessive cuddling girlfriend appearing, which we will never predict.
>>34537032Even for a normie, dating co-workers is a minefield. Look elsewhere.
>>34537032You are actually more than halfway there if you have female friends who are interested. Be friendly back. If you really seem to connect with one, ask her out. (You can do that casually. If chatting about movies and you're both curious about a new one, just say "let's go see it together this weekend")**If not movies, then music, art, hiking, tennis, Chinese food, whatever
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>>34537032before taking on a date someone you know you should better try to take YOURSELF on a real date, trying a new hobbie, working out, looking for something nice to fit u so u develop style.If u feel insecure about yourself being alone no one will make you feel different.
>>34537207what if its someone I see once a week for no more than 30 minutes? Also, I sure my boss will place me in a different position by the end of the year to where I'll be more remote>>34537277>let's go see it together this weekendrealistically, what kind of response could I expect? what if its big turnoff and it ruins our friendly relationship? idk im just terrified to take it to another step>>34539553what styles would you have in mind? I only wear plain t shirts and pants.
>>34540337There is a big grey area where "friends hanging out" and "a date" overlap. If you make the "Let's see the movie together" casually, you are not committing yourself or her to lifetime romance. But how the day goes will give you a sense of where in that grey area the two of you are tending.
