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>Navel-gazing wall of text incoming
I'm a 31 year old man. I've had sex with a total of 6 partners, 3 men and 3 women. These were all years ago, I haven't fucked in probably 4 or 5 years. But I always found that sex with men was a lot easier, less stressful, more enjoyable. I can only think of a couple times I enjoyed fucking a woman, both were during some very emotionally turbulent times with my first girlfriend, which I think is what made it work - Months after we'd broken up and things died down we hooked up again and while it wasn't like horrible, it just felt silly; I couldn't finish. Besides those two occasions I've never enjoyed the sex I've had with girls. So I've always just assumed I'm gay. Fast forward to today. Over the past, I don't know, 3 or 4 weeks I've been starting to notice female beauty a lot more and it feels quite captivating in a way that's unfamiliar to me. The other night I was at a gas station and there was this Cuban looking attendant who, for whatever reason, just made me wild with desire. It was like getting hit by a vehicle or something when I checked her out, very weird for me to be so drawn to a random girl like that. To be fair she looked a bit boyish, short hair and fairly tight body, but still very clearly a woman. Now, it's still hard for me to imagine enjoying sex with a woman but I'm curious, is it possible or normal to change from gay to straight in your early thirties? I'm hopeful because it would solve a lot of problems for me.
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>is it possible or normal to change from gay to straight in your early thirties?
No. But most people aren't perfectly gay or straight to begin with, and you probably aren't either. More importantly, the label is irrelevant: who you are attracted to matters, but what label you put on that doesn't. If you're attracted to a particular person, whether you would normally be attracted to someone like that isn't important. Your feelings for that person are.
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bump
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>>34537067
Just fuck people you wanna fuck. Dont over think it



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