Hi,I'm in a couple with my GF for 7 years now. We bought a house and got a baby 2 month ago. We met at school and we were both lost. We made a lot of romantic stuff, travels, sex, etc... But for 3/4 years now, everything as change.We don't do stuff together, she got interest in nothing but TV. I got interest in my job and video games. We got a dog and two cats also that i love a lot. I do prefer my cats cause i did not want the dog but i say yes to everything. Same for the house, i like it but i don't like what we bought inside it. It has no soul.She do a basic job that she do not like that much but she don't know what to do and don't want to change.I do like my job and i take me sometime two or three hours per week more than i should do but that's not a real problem in our relationship.She told me a normal couple have sexe like 19 times a month and 10 when they got a baby. We had sexe like 10 times in 1,5 years. 4/5 times was for trying to get the baby.We aslo do very basic sexe, i go on her and sometimes missionary. We use to talk in the past about how i was doing sexe with my ex and she told me she will not do that.So, what do we do ? How do you feel about that ?
It's over, etienne, you lost frame. Maybe you could try grabbing her by the hips and bending her over sûr la table and fucking her brains out without asking to get her excited again, but other than that you gotta start over with another
she was never that much into sexe buddy. Also i stopped smoking, drinking and i changed physically because i was doing sport 3/4 times per week. She took 30 kg over the years also and she don't like to do sport. We also got not that much friends to do party. We just do dinner.
Go to a couple therapist
that's all ?
>>34538465You married a low libido woman who was probably putting out in the beginning to lock you down, now her age and obesity has turned her asexual, not much you can do other than get a mistress or a divorce
>>34538359Why in the hell would you choose to have a child in that situation?
>>34538359Are you saying you go down on her but she doesn't give you oral in return?Time for some No-Ask Face Fucking
I don't know, i wanted a child anyway.And no, she don't like to give blowjob... and i don't want to ask for it. I don't want it from her anymore...
>>34538359Traditionally, men in this situation just get a mistress.
