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Wtf are there dudes who are objectively uglier than me who have beautiful gfs? I did everything by the book, going to college, getting the corporate job, hitting the gym, being kind and decent to everyone in my vicinity, yet I am still an incel. Why the fuck is the game rigged against me?
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>>34538490
You did everything except talk to women.
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because bad looks/being ugly aren't huge factors in women's willingness to start dating you overall
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>>34538490
Because what actually matters is confidence (or the ability to mimic it convincingly). If you're both confident and funny you'll get laid very easily.
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because youre a dumb narcissist
stop obsessing over yourself and start being a fun person to be around
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The "book" is wrong

You did all this nonsense instead of just talking to girls and being someone who they like to be around. All they want is a funny guy that can make them laugh and is entertaining. Everything else is second unless you are a complete bum.

I'm single and all the girls I like don't like me back (I don't like the one or two that like me sadly). I am boring and seen as anti fun. But hey at least my life is fine right?
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I don't see any ugly guys with beautiful gfs
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>>34538490
How tall are you?
Also, don't listen to liars like
>>34538571
>>34538588
>>34538640
>>34538646
If you are attractive enough, women will talk to you. They may not straight-up flirt with you, but they'll at least give you a chance.
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>>34538588

>funny

This is where it ends for me, i'm not funny. Don't find practically anything funny that normies do, rarely laugh at anything. I don't understand why humor is so important in attraction either. Like, I thought women were attracted to masculinity. Why do all the immature guys who giggle at everything and act super docile and beta get laid the most?
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>>34538490
It's because you have autism. And autists have this really fucking annoying worldview where they think real life is going to pan out like high school/college, they think real life is this linear point A to point B to point C straight line, autists think that life is a check list where they think having the physique, job, house, car, etc etc all leads to the woman. They think pussy is going to appear in their hands like a diploma.

Fucking sheltered morons who can't understand anything outside of what other people imposed on them. Only good at following orders and instructions, carrying out repetitive and predictable tasks like a fucking mule. Never understanding that it takes initiative, spontaneity, opportunism and charisma to get the girl. And autists never want to do any of that because it goes against their gay mind palace, their sperg rhythm, their retarded obsession over routine.
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>>34538985
> spontaneity, opportunism and charisma
Isn't it the very problem that an autist doesn't develop those normally? You go to the therapist and it happens he doesn't offer any training whatsoever for those either.
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>>34538490
>Wtf are there dudes who are objectively uglier than me who have beautiful gfs?
We tried to tell you there was more to it than just that.
>>>34538560
Bingo.
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>>34538985
Did you get cucked by an autist or something
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>>34538957
>Why do all the immature guys who giggle at everything and act super docile and beta get laid the most?
Because they look more approachable and friendly than a quiet guy, probably easy to talk with
I feel you, I'm pretty quiet in most scenarios
In many cases you may look quite decent but appear too intimidating for your average woman to approach you on her own, and if they have low self-esteem or are not used to making the first move, they will simply decide that you are not worth the try.
That's why you have to make the first move
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>>34538571
Sauce on that?
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>>34539338
NTA. My mood goes to shit whenever I want to talk to a woman. It feels like I have nothing to provide for her. Can't find anything funny because brain was fried with stress and SSRI, only things I giggle at are edgy cunny jokes here. It seems americans like this random absurd humor out of rhythm and surprise, can't think fast enough to do it and that's what I've always been.

Dunno how to get out of that headspace. I tire and start thinking I'm genuinely inferior to alcoholics and wifebeaters.
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>>34540496
>They will hate you with a passion because the truth exposes the whore's strategy.
Or they just don't want to date a "black pilled" man because he does not have to offer a lot in a relationship? 9+/10 guys I have heard spout these theories want a young, beautiful woman who keeps the house spotless, always looks her best, spends quality time with the kids every day with a smile on her face, cooks great, and of course she has to be smart, loyal, honest, committed to his family and so on.

And what do they have to offer? They have a (good) job, that's about it. So many men have jobs, are young, look good, and don't spout theories about how women are mostly good for child-rearing. Hell even if you just want to pop out babies for a man who brings in good money, you can just be a sugarbaby and you can find a man who will be down for this and who also believes in the concept of marital rape.

It is not surprising that women are typically not that into men that have a worldview where women are shite. Would YOU want to date a woman who can and will talk forever about the faults of men, both in general and men she has known? No right? Then don't expect women to feel otherwise.
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>>34540551
>Would YOU want to date a woman who can and will talk forever about the faults of men

But that's literally the majority of women, and they all get dates easily
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>>34538490
Because the truth is that liesure signalling is the #1 attractiveness metric women use. The #2 attractiveness metric being capability for physical violence.
Women are really dumb.
I say this, as a person that has never had a gf, so take with a grain if salt, but I do witness alot.
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>>34538560
Fpbp. Talk to women OP
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>>34538490
>Why the fuck is the game rigged against me?
There is no rigging. There is something unattractive about you to women. Try figuring out what that is.
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>>34540551
I don't think that's true, you make it sound like every man is a third worlder below the line of poverty. I doubt most men holding a job are like that, from what I notice they're just piggos living from paycheck to paycheck wasting it on drinks, not really abusive, and they complain a lot about workplace tensions, either with leaders or subordinates. Yeah none of this different than me, except i'm skinnyfat (better than being a piggy), cultured, as pessimistic as life is predictable, and not being able to talk to women because I wouldn't talk to them about how I hated growing up.

There's something more primal. Keeping a conversation full of absurdities and innuendos seems more valuable than being down to earth.

Anyways, I get what's wrong with me. I get starstruck with women and I lose the train of thought. I don't need to spout any incel shit, what I get sounds like a temporary afasia.
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>>34540855
Nta but I just have IT
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>>34538490
>Whytf are there dudes who are objectively uglier than me who have beautiful gfs?
Because you're not seeing the hidden objectives. Maybe he makes 5x more than her dad. Maybe he reminds her of her dad. Maybe she has the most annoying laugh in the world. Maybe she looks like shit without makeup. Maybe she's insecure about everything and picks fights all the time. Maybe he's a gay cuck.

>Why the fuck is the game rigged against me?
It's not. Go to a country where your salary is 5x all the other men and take your pick.

If you're so willing to change, do it right. Keep your mind open and move on as fast as life does.
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>>34538490
You need to be a bluepilled normie to get a gf in 2026. If you are slightly redpilled or too aware of reality women will get the ick. There is nothing more revolting to woman than man who is aware of reality or who spews redpills or blackpills near them. They will hate you with a passion because the truth exposes the whore's strategy. They are living in an illusionary world and the truth naturally disrupts and shatters their illusions and lies.



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